[lukeyuriwren]

First of all ill start with I'm a 16 year old bisexual male. And second of all I have never experienced "love at first sight".

So on Monday there was this new boy in our school I met and I instantly got a feeling that prettymuch was the kind of butterflies that you get when it's the day before you go to Disneyland when you're 6. So basically I don't know how to approach this guy properly, I mean I've spoke to him and he seemed nice and he hangs round with one of my groups of friends which are also very nice/ pleasant to talk / be with. But when I talk to him I seem to either mess words up or be headstrong and I'm pulling back a bit because I don't want to freak him out already :') so I don't know if he may be interested in either both or the same sex, I've never approached someone about this because I'm usually the one to be approached, but I'm scared ill make a wrong move or ill freak him out If I tell him I really like him because if that doesn't work I still want to be his friend, a few of my friends know I like him and have said to go ahead but to be honest I'm afraid to. So I was wondering if you helpful bunch could give me any past stories, hints / tips, basically any kind of help :)
Thanks guys :)

[JoeCanada76]

Hello there,

Well you know what it is always difficult to make the first move. You just never know how that person will react. Bisexual or not.
The thing is you never will know if this person might feel the same way or not if you do not approach this person. Chances are maybe this person will get freaked out? Maybe not? The thing is do you personally think it is worth to take that risk? Without taking any risks you will never know. Many times if somebody asks somebody else out and they get turned down it can be awkward to continue on being friends. Other times it is not. See what I mean, we could offer all the advice and past stories to you that we have but it is like rolling the dice. You never know the result your going to have until you make that move.

[lukeyuriwren]

I guess your right, I think I may wait a few days or so to get to know him slightly better before I decide what to do, if things don't go to plan I have my friends for support I guess its 50/50 thanks for the help :) it's a really big help thank-you :)

[talaniman]

Find out who you are dealing with, so you know how to deal with them. Feelings don't matter unless you get carried away, and rush into something because you can never assume or presume the feelings of others.

I say pay attention and find out who it is, and what your feelings are, because at this time, your feelings are as strange to you, as the new stranger you have the feelings for Right? So go slow, until you know more.