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sangeethasan · Sep 13, 2011, 10:41 AM

Ya I understand. Will talk to my parents and take a decision.

Cat1864 · Sep 13, 2011, 11:06 AM

I think you are making a good decision.

You should make decisions for yourself based all the information you can get. If you see warning signs, pay attention to them.

Love is a wonderful thing but it should not be allowed to blind you to possible problems.

Take care and I hope all works out for the best for you.

joypulv · Sep 13, 2011, 01:01 PM

A man who doesn't introduce me to his family and friends is very suspicious.
Something doesn't sound right.
Is it about differences of caste, or income, or education?

sangeethasan · Sep 13, 2011, 09:30 PM

Thanks cat for your valuable advice...

JoeCanada76 · Sep 13, 2011, 09:32 PM

Have you talked to your parents yet?

sangeethasan · Sep 13, 2011, 09:33 PM

Hi joy His main problem is only caste. Because we are from different caste. He told me many times that if I am from his caste means he would have introduced me to his parents and marriage have got finished by this time...

No Joe, I didn't talk to my parents yet...

Cat1864 · Sep 14, 2011, 12:40 PM

Originally Posted by sangeethasan

Hi joy His main problem is only caste. Because we are from different caste. He told me many times that if I am from his caste means he would have introduced me to his parents and marriage have got finished by this time....

Sounds like a reason not to introduce you to his family, but it doesn't explain why he hasn't introduced you to his friends.

Please take care of yourself and your heart. Gather all the information you can before you make a decision which can't be changed.

sangeethasan · Sep 14, 2011, 09:49 PM

I too asked about his friends he says he don't have any close friends to give intro to them. Since he born and bought up in trichy here he has office colleagues only and not any close friends to share his personal nu...

laina89 · Sep 19, 2011, 06:56 AM

I am in the same boat as you but I think what we both need to do is just understand that we have to start living our life's and not worry about if they will stand by us or not my mother is a very strong minded woman and I have always try to live my life her way but I love my boyfriend with everything I have in me and I don't want to lose him (which he always tells me I wont) over this but its time for the both of us to stand up and be the women independent smart strong beautiful women they raise and show them and our self that we can go out in this world and know what we want in this world and go far it and be happy even if it fails we both just need to know that we can stand on our on... we just have to tell them this is what we want and we want them to be happy and stand by us and let then no we do love then and respect them and thank them for all that have done for us

sangeethasan · Sep 19, 2011, 09:17 AM

Right now my family is in financial problem so I think its not the right time to talk to my parents nu...

rajimani · Apr 1, 2012, 07:46 AM

Hi this is raji from tamilnadu , my suggestion is don't go out of home, surely your parents will agree , wait till they agree. First ask him to talk to their parents then ask their parents and him to talk to your parents . Atlast they will agree for your marriage, anyway be bold . All the very best ,