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landomando · Sep 12, 2011, 03:35 PM

My roommate wants to get with this girl really badly. Its all he talks about. This girl is interesting. I do know her a little bit but I am confused. First of all supposibly she has a boyfriend. But I'm not sure if she is just saying that or she really does. She doesn't act at all like she has a boyfriend. She flirts with him all the time. Like for example he works out and she went on his Facebook and "liked" all of his workout pictures. When we were eating she was like OMG how strong are your legs. And she started to touching them. We went out a couple of days ago and he said I could really go for a taco because we were passing a taco place and she took it sexually like really sexually not jokingly... I just don't know. I told him if she has a boyfriend move on! I don't condone cheating at all. But what should he do. She seems to really like him and she's all over him. Help!

Cat1864 · Sep 12, 2011, 04:06 PM

I'd encourage him to leave her alone until he knows for certain she is available and he won't become a rebound if she just got out of a relationship.

He needs to put her in her place which is no where near him if she playing games with relationships. There is absolutely no sense in getting his name mixed up with a female who even if she isn't in a relationship is letting people think she is.

It may not be said to his face, but it doesn't take long for someone to get labeled 'cheater' even if he/she didn't do anything.

tecia_bee · Sep 12, 2011, 05:44 PM

Most likely she's just playing had to get. If she did have a boyfriend, she wouldn't flirt with him. Just tell him to talk with her and slowly get her to admit she's single. Tell him to flirt with her for a couople days, then act like he doesn't care about her. If she is upset about the sudden change, she likes him!

Cat1864 · Sep 12, 2011, 06:24 PM

Many people who are involved in supposedly committed relationships will flirt. Some who are in long distance relationships will attempt to cheat. There isn't any way to say with certainty what anyone will or won't do.

When you are uncertain about a relationship, communicate or walk away. Don't play games. It only adds to the confusion.

Fr_Chuck · Sep 12, 2011, 06:37 PM

Many people, married or with boy or girl friends flirt and many cheat. So flirting means really nothing, she may just like to flirt.

But what are you doing in this, why are you in the middle, they know each other now, he knows how to talk or reach her.

I guess I should ask if this is adult or 8th grade. But he sends her a message or just calls her on the phone and he goes on from there. You have no part in this , that I can see