[kindly]

I still need sex. Why? I could be doing great things.

[Cat1864]

Why can't you do 'great things' and be interested in sex?

Are you in a committed relationship such as a marriage? Doesn't your partner need sex, too?

There is nothing wrong with needing sex as long as it isn't the only focus in your life.

Life is about balances. Work, love, play, relationships, etc. are all important in their own ways.

While all parts cannot be exactly equal all the time, if you are allowing one part to overwhelm the others, then you need to look at why and see how to get it back in place.

If you would like to share more information, it would make giving you more detailed advice possible.

[excon]

I still need sex. Why? I could be doing great things.

Hello kindly:

Huh??

I still need sex, AND I'm doing great things... In fact, getting laid is ONE of those great things... Tell me, WHAT'S greater than that?

excon

[Fr_Chuck]

All men "want sex" you do not need sex, you can live and have a wonderful life without it, if you decide to.

If you want sex, get a girlfriend, a sex partner or some other method to have sex.

You age has little to do with needs, wants or ability to perform.

Also sexual energy for some is used to go and do other things, many people have lived celebrate lives and focused on other things, or they do both.

Only you can manage you time and abilities

[smoothy]

As the others said... Its not an either / or situation. After all, out of the 24 hours in a day... how much of that can you possibly spend on having sex realistically at that age... every day of the week?

Heck... I'm essentially 50, I have sex every day... and I don't have to choose between that and doing anything or everything else.