[talaniman]

Taz has been back here. She has read these posts. She alone can determine what information 'fits' for her. She asked for advice, I'm guessing that a person who is sincere in their question is asking for honesty. I have given her my honesty. You don't have to agree, you don't have to disagree. This isn't about ME. It's not about YOU. It's about answering a question. You have your way of doing things, I have my way.

Its more than just answering questions, it's a sincere effort to help some one. If you read other threads, you will see it is preferable that The OP comeback and in joining the dialog we gain more insight into the problem, and others learn also that they may have the same problem and know they are not alone. We all have are opinions and styles granted, but if your just here to answer questions at least have the patients to refrain jumping on others at least until all the facts can be brought out. Most peoples problems are more complex than the original post and its important to let them give us the whole story, so jumping in with two feet and scaring the poster away is not a good idea, and we all lose the chance to learn and understand. It is so much more than just answering questions as some honestly come for help.

[robynhgl]

Tal--I understand your need for control. It seems you believe yourself to have the ability to read the minds and know the intentions of others. You so obviously have applied the wealth of your abilities here--in this very thread.

Do me a favor--if you feel the need to lecture me further--please do so in a Private Message. I think it's very rude, uncaring and selfish of YOU--to hijack this thread to admonish me. Perhaps you need to analyse your own motivations for becoming so focused upon MY responses.

I believe that I have been honest and forthright in my responses to Tazgirl. If she was looking for a straight forward answer--she got it. And as I have stated before--if she makes the choice to do something to change her behavior--I will be the first one to congratulate her on taking that important step to a better life for her and for her child/children.

Good luck Taz--Prayers are with you.

[talaniman]

The message is for all of us, not just you. That's why it was put on the public forum.

[robynhgl]

The message is for all of us, not just you. Thats why it was put on the public forum.

OOOOkkeeee, I was referring to YOUR messages to ME. Wow--you really don't read things through--do you?

[femme]

tazgirl, love your son no matter what his condition.he's only 8yrs old and needs that little bit extra love and attention. I bet he's picking up all those negative thourghts you have about him especially the love you can't share. He may be feeling a little icealated and a touch withdrawn. Try talking to your son and try to understand his problem. I think there is a communication breakdown and once this has been rectifyed then I bet you will see a massive result. Your son loves you very much. Please give him some back. I no you love your son its just his condition you don't love and can't handle. Your son will reward you in later years. Best of luck to you xxx