[iphonegirlxoxo]

I think my boyfriend is getting a bit bored of me and he is noticing other girls a lot recently. I want to do something to have a bit of independence and make him proud to have me as a girlfriend and realise I am just as good as any other girl? Any ideas? :S xxx

[talaniman]

How old are you both? Do you live together? How long have you been together?

[agh1990]

To be honest, I don't really agree with you having to change the person you are to keep your boyfriend interested. If he's too busy noticing other girls to realise what a fantastic girl he already has, then he's not really worth you're time and effort is he?

However, it may just be a bit of lighthearted teasing about the other girls. When my boyfriend and I are walking around town together, I often catch him giving a quick glance at another girls legs or whatever, but I just make a joke out of it (such as saying "stare a bit more and she might actually notice you" etc.) because at the end of the day, I know that he will be coming home with me, and if he was really willing to sabotage what we had over another girl, then he's not worth it to me.

All this aside, if you are still wanting to do something to impress your boyfriend, how about taking up a hobby that doesn't involve him? Are you creative? Perhaps do some photography or artwork, or learn to play a musical instrument such as guitar or piano and put some songs up on Youtube. Do something cool and independent of him and he may just realise that he's already got his own killer girlfriend at home :)