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    Aug 13, 2011, 04:26 PM
    How would I cope if my boyfriend disagreed to moving in together?
    My boyfriend always says we will move in together in 6 months time,. blah blah,. blah, but as time goes by, it seemed like he is no longer interested about it. We will have a serious talk about it tomorrow, and I don't know how to handle the disappointment.

    I love him unconditionally, and would like to help him out with his expenses, and would love to cater to him, and wake up next to him, but I feel like he doesn't feel the same toward it.



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    Aug 13, 2011, 04:32 PM

    Why would he want to? Now he has not only his freedom but also whatever he wants from you whenever he wants it, right?
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    Aug 13, 2011, 04:36 PM

    Had he wanted to move in with you , he would have 6 month ago, the 6 month was just a answer to shut you up back then, hoping or expecting you to forget about it.

    You need to take a deep look at where the relationship is, where it was 6 month ago, a year ago and so on.
    Is there progress or can you expect it to be in the same place in 1 year or 2 year from now ?
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    Aug 14, 2011, 05:38 PM

    Maybe you should get a better idea of what he wants, and expects, from this relationship, and see if it works the same way for you both.
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