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I've known both of these girls since a very young age, and about a year ago my ex broke up with me. Obviously they were both on my side saying how horrible it was that he did that, etc.

But one night when we were all together, we went onto my friends Facebook account, and my other friend started talking to my ex. It was harmless, but I was still a little annoyed. They started to actually hit it off, and I soon realized it wasn't a joke anymore after they had started talking over Facebook everyday. He already went out with my first friend, and now he asked the other one out too, and I'm not sure what to do.

[Cat1864]

1) You can accept that your relationship with your ex is over and let it go.

2) You can talk to your friends and let them know you are hurt by their going out with your ex.

3) You can let all of them go, heal and find new friends.

Speaking from experience, you will probably care about him for the rest of your life. Just because he is an ex doesn't mean the emotions go away. However, it also doesn't mean you should be in a relationship with him. He is an ex for a reason.

Over the past year, have you been dating and having fun?

It may not feel like it, but it is better to let the past go and wish them well than it is to try to hold on. If you give yourself a chance, there will be other males who come into your life who will make you wonder what you ever saw in him.

[talaniman]

Just because you may still like an ex, doesn't mean you own him, or he isn't entitled to do as he pleases, with whomever he pleases.

I think you stay out of his business all together, and off his Facebook page. Its just keeps feelings all stirred up.

Everyone is an ex to somebody or another when you are young, and maybe its time to let this ex go.

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We have been broken up for a while and now he has moved on to my friends... when we broke up about six months later he told me he still had feelings for him and that he wishes we could get back together but we can't beacause both of our scheduals are too busy. Not sure what to do.

[talaniman]

He has been asking your friends out, and its best to just leave him alone, and tell him no thanks. He seems to have feelings for all the girls if you ask me.