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    Aug 11, 2011, 03:21 PM
    I think I'm being threatened by my ex boyfriend...
    He keeps texting, and calling me, and Facebook messaging me, telling me that I should've never dared to break up with him. He texted me and said "next time I see you, your da** gonna regret it." And he said that if he ever gets a hold of me he was going to hurt me. I broke up with him because he started trying to go too far, so I felt uncomfortable and I told him that several times and he didn't listen, so I broke up with him... And now I'm so scared I don't know what to do.
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    Aug 11, 2011, 03:34 PM

    Millie, this is a serious issue and whether or not he means it is a mute point. Here is what you do, to keep you safe, moderately, go to the police and have a restraining order put on him so he can't come near you without police intervention. Postively save all the evidence you have and it being on Facebook, regarding his threats to you, makes it legal. Save your voice mails as wells, save everything.

    And, this is important, call his bluff and tell him what you are doing.

    What is he, a complete A***hole thinking he can do this?

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    Aug 12, 2011, 11:59 AM

    He is a bully and coward, that makes him dangerous as long as he thinks you are afraid. Don't keep this a secret, you tell your family, and friends (especially the menfolk), what you are dealing with, and tell him that he will be sorry for messing with you. The more people on your side, including the COPS, the better.

    Caution, and always being aware of your surroundings will help make you feel safer, but taking no crap from him will keep you safe. He wants you to be afraid, don't, but do be cautious.
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    Aug 13, 2011, 01:44 AM

    Log everything and talk to the Police-this is harassment.

    Take action and be safe.

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