[taylorhobbsx]

OK I know this is really stupid and stuff... and I'm probably not! But I'm just so upset and worried. Im 13 year old female... and recently I've been gaining weight on my stomach. I think I'm just mostly worried but I don't know...
I used to do a lot of excerisie but now I stopped so maybe its just that? But my stomach is getting bigger. I can scuk my stomach in all the way.. so I'm probably not but I really just need someone to tell me that I'm not otherwise I won't believe it! :'( IM SO WORRIED...
I don't know ANY guys so I can't really be pregnant... :S PLEASE HELP ME why am I gaining weight on my stomach!
I did masturbate once... and that time I did I touched my dads hand and he just came out of the toilet.. does that mean anuthing?
OK MAYBE IM OVERREACTING BUT PLEASSE HELP ME I'm like crying... :'( thank uoiu xx

[Curlyben]

Have you had UNPROTECTED SEX with a MALE ?
If not then it would be IMPOSSIBLE for you to be pregnant.

I suggest you learn about this process, soonest.

[joypulv]

You didn't get pregnant by touching your dad's hand and then masturbating. Sperm has to be closer than that, although it doesn't have to be inside your vagina in rare cases. We warn women who fool around with men 'just a little' that they can get pregnant, because too many think that interrupting sex is OK as long as the man doesn't ejaculate - not true.
So.. why is your stomach a little rounder? Partly because you are a woman, and the hormones of puberty change your shape (as they will later in life too), and partly because you stopped exercising or are eating more.

[taylorhobbsx]

To everyone,
Ok So I'm not pregnant right? Thanks so much.. youve really helped me! :D
To joy pulv: But how come my stomach is like sticking out!! I want it to go... your amazing though thank you so much :)

[joypulv]

OK, first let's find out if you mean stomach, abdomen, or both. Stomach is above your belly button, abdomen below. You are at an age when your body is going to change shape - pelvis widens, adipose (fat) gets rearranged, and all the puberty stuff like pubic hair and breasts. Nature preparing you for your primeval role as a childbearer. Some girls get away with keeping a lean body through either genetics or tons of exercise and diet. And most of us women retain water around our periods, and that means swollen breasts and tummy and legs and it feels like everything, and probably is.

One far fetched thought: Studies of diabetes show that people with a concentration of fat around the middle tend to get/have diabetes. But it's a lot of fat all the way around the middle, not just a little bowl of fat in the front. I still think you are just changing shape. You say you can suck in your tummy! Don't worry about it.

[taylorhobbsx]

To joypulv: Umm I think its kind of both... :S Ok so I'm not prengnat right?? Yeah... maybe its just fat? :o but I think its both! Help me.e

[joypulv]

No, you definitely are not pregnant. It's good old fat. But it's good that you are thinking about all this before you do have sex. But stop WORRYING about it, just learn about it and plan.

[taylorhobbsx]

YYA THANk YOU IM SO HAPPYYY :D Do u know any ways I can lose cardio fat fast? :D Your amazing!! Hehehe thank you soooo much... :)

[Wondergirl]

Why would touching your father's hand after he used the bathroom (to urinate, I presume) have anything to do with making you pregnant?

Do you know how females get pregnant?

[taylorhobbsx]

I just thought that but I knnow I'm not now and its just fat..? :o

[Wondergirl]

I just thought that but i knnow im not now and its just fat..?? :o

You thought urine would make you pregnant (if he hadn't washed his hands)?

[taylorhobbsx]

Yes :S

[Wondergirl]

To lose the fat, don't eat bread, whipped cream, ice cream, rice, sugar or anything with sugar in it, butter, fats in meat, chicken or turkey skin, or anything with corn syrup in it. That pretty much limits you to skinless chicken or turkey, vegetables, and fruits.

Go back to your exercising.

[Wondergirl]

Do you know how babies get made?

[taylorhobbsx]

Aw thanky ou so much! :D :D Okie... so Ill just stick to that stuff. If you over eat fruit.. do you gain weight?? (P.S My acne is all flat now! :D but its just like the mark the brown dot. So how do I get rid of them? :))

[Wondergirl]

Aw thanky ou so much!! :D :D Okie...so Ill just stick to that stuff. If you over eat fruit..do you gain weight??? (P.S My acne is all flat now! :D but its just like the mark the brown dot. So how do i get rid of them? :))

You can't overeat fruit. You'll throw up with boredom first.

Give the brown dots time; they'll fade and disappear. Meanwhile, don't end up with a new outbreak -- so CUT OUT STRESSING OVER STUPID STUFF like getting pregnant with pee!!

[taylorhobbsx]

Hehehehe that sounds funny! :P How long will the brown dots take to fade?! What can I do to hhelp the process? Any tyupe of fruit/vvegetables which will help the process? I really want it to go... itsometimes turns really red :/ But its all flat I think

[Wondergirl]

Be patient. (Not something you are good at... )

I may have to adopt you.

[taylorhobbsx]

Hehehe my mum always says I'm not patient :S Your so cool! You'd be such a cool mum!

[Wondergirl]

If your mum gives up on you, let me know. I don't have any daughters, so you would be the challenge of my life. Good thing I studied psychology.