[Msaldean88]

My boyfriends ex is obsessed with him. Won't leave him alone, calls and calls, and texts, and texts him, she is so immature and won't leave him alone. I have asked, and asked her to stop, and even my boyfriend has told her to leave him alone and she just won't stop, and were not going to do something like call the cops, or do harassment charges cause she is only 15. I'm 17 and he is 18 and me and him are really serious, and don't have time for her. We ignore her and everything it just won't stop! Please comment and give your opinions. Thanks
-Brittney



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[SadButTrue70]

If she is that young hopefully ignoring her will work. You can't give her any energy at all. Don't threaten her or call her names because that may make it worse. You could also tell her parents. That might help.

[Fr_Chuck]

Perhaps have his parents call her parents, telling them that she is causing problems, esp with her being underage

[shellmunds]

Young girls and their first loves. They are very much so immature. The best you can do is ignore her. Soon, she'll fade into the background.

I've been with my boyfriend for two years. He's two years older than I am. I'm only eighteen and he's twenty. This girl is probably sixteen, maybe seventeen now.

They met in school and my boyfriend, being the friendly guy he is, befriended her. Somehow, somewhere in there they almost dated, but he refused because of her age... Idk, it's long story.

She stalked him for a while. It all started at one of our homecomings, my junior year and his senior. She was with another school and came over hugging all over him. Her MySpace then was littered with OLD photos of him and how that was her best friend when they hadn't spoken since her freshman year.

She texted and called him and it took me about five text messages and one missed call to pick up his phone and call her back. She was excited when she saw his number, but I gave her a piece of my mind. It's quite annoying when you're trying to watch a movie and this person keeps calling and texting you non-stop...

So, I understand your pain.

[nourirannii]

I think you and your boyfriend should just ignore her. She'll feel unwanted. But if she doesn't stop like seriously you have to go up to her and tell her that nothing with change that your boyfriend won't break up with you for her. He loves you, not her.