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Anngi16 · Jul 26, 2011, 09:47 AM

There are these to girls. They sometimes just leave me there they don't tell me what they are talking about they write letters to each other and don't let me read! They were my best friends when I get my pocket money and they were there for me when my best friends dumped me so help me !

southamerica · Jul 26, 2011, 09:52 AM

Are these the same girls in your other post who talk about not wanting to be friends with you because of your race or your braces?

Anngi16 · Jul 26, 2011, 10:02 AM

No the ones here are different

southamerica · Jul 26, 2011, 10:06 AM

Okay, MAN being a teen is rough. What grade are you in? Middle school? It seemed like middle school and first years of high school for me were just plagued with a bad run of friends.

If these girls are only sweet to you when you have money but ignoring you and making you feel left out the rest of the time... perhaps it's time to make new friends? Why not take up a sport or theater, maybe join a youth group if you go to church... something where you can meet new people and leave these mean girls behind.

You shouldn't have to struggle to keep true friends around. Friendship (while sometimes requiring TLC and mending) is an easy, wonderful thing.

Anngi16 · Jul 26, 2011, 10:23 AM

I can't just leave them. See at our school there is this thing that the friends u start with are what u end the year with. On top of all this me and my boyfriend broke up and I'm failing

southamerica · Jul 26, 2011, 10:26 AM

Sounds like you need to focus on your studies then, instead of friends who don't treat you right.

You'll be surprised how easily you can make friends with other people by joining an activity. It's also a great distraction from your break up. What are your interests?

Anngi16 · Jul 26, 2011, 10:31 AM

I can't focus on my studies with them putting all this preasure me! Why is growing up so ****ing hard!

southamerica · Jul 26, 2011, 10:58 AM

What pressure? YOU are worried about them, it doesn't sound like they're doing a lot in return. It's up to you to take a deep breath and ignore them. Focus on school. What are your interests? Do you like to read, run, write, draw, sing, dance..

Anngi16 · Jul 26, 2011, 11:00 AM

Singing writing reading

southamerica · Jul 26, 2011, 11:10 AM

So why not join choir, the school newspaper, a book club?

You'll meet new people, perk up your interests, and be too busy to worry about those girls who are mean to you.

The more you ignore them, the easier to focus on school work and success.

Anngi16 · Jul 26, 2011, 11:24 AM

Im already in choir, and bookclub and you know what I can just start a newspaper! I just need to focus and Ill do it! Do u know of any love expert

southamerica · Jul 26, 2011, 11:28 AM

That's the spirit!

We have plenty of seasoned love experts here, if you have any questions about relationships, you can ask them here.

Good luck!

Homegirl 50 · Jul 26, 2011, 12:06 PM

You need to concentrate on getting through High School. Love is not something you need to be dealing with right now.