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    Anngi16 Posts: 14, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 26, 2011, 09:23 AM
    Why are they mean to me
    So there are these two girls lets just call them the *****S. They are really mean to people mostly black people! The other day they said they don't want to be friends with this other girl because I'm black and wear glasses and have braces. They hurt me so much *** help
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    Jul 26, 2011, 09:25 AM

    You just have to ignore them. They're a miserable lot if they are so shallow, and they'll have to mature or become much more mature in adulthood.

    Just hold your chin up and understand that you're wonderful just the way you are, and you deserve GOOD friends who don't gossip or hurt the feelings of others. Your friends should be beautiful on the inside and those girls are UGLY on the inside.

    Ignoring them is the best way to make their insults completely ineffective.
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    Jul 26, 2011, 09:36 AM

    But I do leave them but they always come back sometimes I just shut up but they don't stop
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    Jul 26, 2011, 09:44 AM

    Isn't that strange? THEY don't want to be YOUR friends, yet they follow you around in order to tell you how much they don't want to be your friends.

    There's a word for that, and the word is "pathetic". You have better things to do, and as long as you just give their taunting NO heed, they will leave you alone eventually. The only way a bully is successful is if you feed it.
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    Jul 26, 2011, 09:58 AM

    U know what your so right thanxs *** answer my new question
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    Jul 26, 2011, 12:11 PM

    You don't give people like that the time of day they will get the message. The ignore button is a useful one.

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