[Helpful_guy]

How long does is it take for slowing down after getting married? Is there a time line?

[JudyKayTee]

Depends upon the couple - unfortunately, life, children and other factors get involved when you get married.

It also depends on the frequency before the marriage.

[Helpful_guy]

Ah so true... we dated 3 years before we got married. Now married for 4 years... before we were doing 2-3 times daily now its 1-2 times daily. I guess we are reaching the cuddly stages of life...

[JudyKayTee]

You had sex two or three times a day for three and also managed to hold down jobs and have a social life?

Oh, the cuddly stage is 1 or 2 times a month.

- For the record, I don't believe your "statistics," nor am I shocked.

[Helpful_guy]

Ahh... I was getting sad... social life? Lol!! She hates outings except romantic dinners 1-2 times a week!! I loved watch movies she does not like also does not like me to watch!! 2-3 times was when we were dating!! But she hates longer sessions? Is there any reason for it? Before marriage she loved it...

[JudyKayTee]

I think everyone puts on their very best faces before marriage and then afterward - maybe "our" real feelings come out, maybe "we" think enough is enough and I want what I want and I want it now, I don't know.

I know I've done some stuff while dating that now I look back on and think - "What the heck?" starting with being terrified of heights and going on a helicopter ride.

What was I thinking? Or was I thinking at all?

[Helpful_guy]

Lol... I know the feeling... we were at the prime of our efforts!! I went on Jet Ski but I don't know how to swim!! Some the actions... I don't I think I can dare to repeat...