[seamas01]

OK so, I've known this girl now for about 3 years give or take a month ( who cares ) but, we've gotten to be such good friends and she always refers to me as her brother were brother and sister we know everything about each other we talk to each other about EVERYTHING, she's a real gorgeus girl, and so all the guys at school go after her, and she's had a few boyfriends, and she always asks me to tell her what I think and I tell her honestly and I never once said the guy is bad cause he wasn't and I always support her with what she thinks if I support it as well but we think awefully a like so we have enver really gotten into a little argument either, the thing is, I have always had something for her.. and its hard for me to keep a smile on my face to be happy when I know she's out with guys or something cause I really do have a lot of feeling for her.. but I don't think she understand really simply because were so close.. literly brother and sister and so finally I want to do something about it.. I want to tell her but I don't want to shock her or annoy her or something I just want it to be right.. I have no idea what to do please help :)

[talaniman]

You won't do a thing by sitting on the sidelines being a brother figure for her. Balance your life and time with her a lot more. Maybe she will miss you, and see you differently, if you act differently. But 3 years is a long time, and I do not know how you handle rejection, but you have a big hole to dig out of if you think you will change her perception of you into a romantic partner, and not a brother.

[Bittertruth]

Its your own fault and that is the honest truth. Your there for her too much, talking about ANYTHING! Her asking if the Boys all right? Really! Your acting too much like a friend and a brother so obviously she's going to think of you as one. You have to let her know that she can think of you in a sexually way, because right now she probably just thinks of you as a girlfriend. Change that. Show her you can be her man. Don't always be there and don't always be a sweet little duck, not saying you should be rude but don't give her the impression of a friend.

[sexy86]

I don't know how she would react, but I would tell her how you feel and if she feels uncomfortable, then just tell her that you'll give her some time to think and if she doesn't return your feelings then I'd suggest you move on and don't waste your time on her, but if she does return your feelings, then love is in the air.