[twistedangel]

Honest opinion please. My partner an I both belong to a chat web page... that's how we acherly met, it's a bit ov harmless flirty fun an we have both made a lot ov friends together and separately through the site. Only I have alarm bells in my head now. I remember him telling me that some girl sent him a message a while bk askein if he wanted to meet her. An he said she would be in the area on a hen night, we both laughed the matter off, but a few days ago, I have her tell me that she did meet him. I really don't know how much is true or not. I confronted him an he has denied it. I drooped the subject an let it go but it was getting to me, so I have don't something really bad. I have what you may say, set him up. I put on a fake profile, fake picture, ov a gorgeous girl, and made it as if she lived close to him, I didn't go out ov my way to send him a message on this profile but it was only a matter ov hours until there was a message on the screen from him, its said 'WOW U ARE STUNNING, U'D LOOK BETTER ON MY ARM THO' I was in shock that he had sent her a message sooo soon, but what he had put didn't bother me, because yeah, I didn't pick an ugly girl to rope him in. To what I replayed, so where would you take me on your arm. To heaven an bk babe, to heaven an bk, but take a rain coat love, because your going to be sooooo wet.. OMG! I don't even get that treatment myself... what is he playing at, anyway, so I sign out... later I tell a friend ov mine, an whilst my b/f is talking to me she signs in to the fake profile an starts talking to him, this way he has no idea that its anything to do with me, but she has lead the conversation on to meeting up with him, which he seams pretty game to do. My question is, do I confront him now with the evidence I have or do I get a time an date see what excuse he gives to me but meet him there so he knows he was punked, Or do you have another idea, I really thought this was the love of my life.. I'm gutted,

[ordinaryguy]

You're both players and manipulators who deserve what you're getting. Play it as long as you can, then get some integrity and dignity.

[talaniman]

You don't trust him, I get that, so you decide to find out for yourself what's going on. This relationship is so unhealthy, as you both have been playing games on the computer and having your fun and now its backfiring. You both deserve each other until one gets honest and tired of the game and leaves.

[Skell]

I think you screen name is suitable given your antics!

Frankly, if you want to hang around the sewer you will end up with a rat! What else did you expect?