[thunder1234567]

I love my husband, but had an affair only for the thrill and now I am bored. I love my husband and he has not found out. What do I do? How do I get out of the affair? Am I a bad person?

[Fr_Chuck]

Yes you are a bad person, you broke the trust and love that your husband had for you. How do you get out of it ? You tell that person never to call you or email you or text you again, and stop seeing them ever.

Next you understand that life will be boring at times, and when they do, you work things out.

I also challenge that you really love your husband, if you did, you would not have risked your entire relationship for a thrill.

[talaniman]

No you are not a bad person, but the worst type of wife imaginable. I use the term wife very loosely.

Ask your husband what you should do, and see if he thinks you are a bad person.

[kcomissiong]

Harshness alert. You are a horrible wife. You need to grow a backbone and end this affair, and then, keep that backbone when you tell your husbad the kind of woman that he is married to and let him decide if he wants to continue your marriage. You expressed no remorse or reget, only boredom, and sound like you would completely betray your husband again if the opportunity presented some excitement. Let him make this decision, he deserves honesty.