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    losttt Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 30, 2011, 05:23 AM
    I want to leave my girlfriend
    I'm 22 and I'm in love with a girl. I want to leave her because she don't love me . I have been with her for 6 years. I lie on myself just to be with her , I'm mad about her. I tried many times to leave her but I couldn't. I feel pain, I'm really suffering, I can't sleep . My life have benn changed to the worse. Please if any body , please give me the right thing to do just to forget her, I want to be away from her. I'am afraid if one day I will hurt her or do a crime . Pleassssssssse I need your help. And thank u
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    Jun 30, 2011, 07:27 AM

    Have you spoken to your doctor about how you feel?

    You seem to have some issues that you'd be better off discussing with a professional.

    Leaving someone means you tell them it's over-then you stick to your decision,however hard that is.
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    Jun 30, 2011, 02:25 PM

    Get some help before you lose control.
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    Jul 1, 2011, 08:01 AM
    Lost, you have to get a grip here, and make a few decisions, and accept that you have to live with those decisions.

    Your thinking bothers me. Are you saying that you are so angry that she doesn't love you, that you would hurt her, or are you saying that if you can't have her, nobody else can?

    Why has it been impossible for you to leave her after trying so many times. Does she take you back, or do you force yourself back into her life by, as you said, 'I lie on myself just to be with her' which I take to mean, you beg to come back?

    What is the cause of all these breakups? Why are you breaking up with her?

    It isn't easy to read between the lines you have written to know what's going on with you. Please try to explain your circumstances better so that all of us here can offer sound advice.

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