[surfluver1212]

OK so I'm a young teen and I have had a few boyfriends but not many. Whenena I go on vacation I get any guy I want from mi age to collage boys.. at school its kind of hard to get a guy.. I mean I don't change mi personality or the way I dress and I go to the beach a lot and I get more boys there then at school I mean at school I'm not a geek so can any one help me understand this!

[JoeCanada76]

What does it matter. Too much thinking on your part.

[Bluerose]

I think I can help you understand it a little. It's to do with having to see the person every day if things don't work out.

The same can be said for the work place. A lot of people avoid work related relationships because if it doesn't work out it can make things very awkward.

Enjoy school and your friends. Look for something more serious outside of school - you will save yourself so much heartache.

[kristynn]

You seem very confused and overthink too much this whole "getting guys" and dating game.

So what? You want to get any guy you want in school? Why is this SO important?

This is a bit off, but quality is better than quantity if you see what I mean. It seems to me that to you, the more guys you get, the better it is. Well honey, you must be very wrong.

[Burn Zap Freeze]

Wow, my gender sounds retarded... Wow, now I sound retarded. But uh, Surf, just stop trying to get so many men, it's not always good. One thing, you got men worshiping you, next, you got gangs fighting for your love. You don't want shootings to start happening do you? Nah, just joking. You should seriously just get on with your life and stop worrying about men. You're a young teen? Do sports, study for school, think about your career future rather than guy future. You said you get a lot of guys? I'm sure you can easily get men when you're older. Think about the things that'll turn you into a successful girl, AND get a lot of guys.