I'm not saying that you're abusing your dog, I'm saying that there have been too many changes, and none of them good, for your dog.
You said that he was only put in the laundry room when he started peeing in the house. You don't think he realizes that? Dogs sense what we're thinking and feeling. He may have toys, a bed, food and water, but he's not being put in the laundry room because it's his den, he's being put in there because he's peeing in the house. You yourself said that.
He may not be ignored all day, but he's definitely on his own a lot more then he used to be. Of course you all have to work. I understand that, but to go from having someone at home during the day, to having the run of the house, to having daily walks, to then being locked in the laundry room alone all day, no walks, is a huge change. Dogs can start having behavior issues like peeing for a lot less then this. A lot less!
I don't blame your mother for being upset about him peeing, but I do blame everyone for not realizing why and changing it. A dog is a responsibility. We choose to have them in our lives, because it makes us happy. Well, we can't only consider our own happiness. He can't just be there for you when you need a cuddle, or want a soft fur baby to pet. You need to consider his needs too. If his needs aren't being met and he starts to rebel, that's not his fault. If you're not willing to put in the work, then you have to be willing to live with the pee.
That's really the only advice I can give you. I know you don't want to hear that you may have to give up some time with your friends in order to do the right thing for your dog, but that's what it's going to take. You're either willing to do that, or you're not. If you're not, then maybe it would be best to find him a home where they are.
I don't mean to be harsh, but I'm thinking of what's best for this dog. He's my main concern.
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