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moranooo · Jun 18, 2011, 08:30 AM

I told her last time that I don't want to continue our relationship, and then I said I am sorry please forgive me, then she said that she wants to have a rest for a week to think,
But we used to speak sometimes, I didn't call or text since last week, because I sent her some sms but she didn't replay, when I called her today she answered fast but she was at work I asked if I can call later but she said its fine please let us talk, everything was very fine, I could feel that she was sad, I told her that I am not sending her sms because I don't want to disturb her but she said no its fine I can read them, what should I understand from that, is she still interested in me?

talaniman · Jun 18, 2011, 02:38 PM

Talk to her, and find out. Why on earth would you dump someone, change your mind, and now worry if she is still interested?

Wouldn't you be cautious of someone that did that? Talk to her, and see what's happening for real!

greatstudent · Jun 20, 2011, 09:02 PM

First of all, why would you break up with her then change your mind then wonder if she still loves you? In my opinion, I think that she still loves you because as a girl I have been through this before. Many girls have been through this before, but she just needs time to really think about eveything. She probably doesn't feel fine enough that she would be able to really talk to you because she is still hurt or talking to you confuses her more. Just leave her to think. SMS her to talk to you when she is really ready. Tell her that you will keep waiting until she is ready to talk. Don't say it though if you are not willing to actually do it. Never lie to a girl because she will eventually find out the truth and get even more mad.

I hope that everything works out for you. :)

moranooo · Jun 21, 2011, 09:34 AM

When I called her she answer me very fast, and sometimes if she is working she goes outside and text me to call back, last time she said that she likes to read my text but she cannot answer, and her new job keeps her very busy all the day night... should I keep on sms or calling her?

talaniman · Jun 21, 2011, 10:32 AM

You do realized you are being punished for your impulsive actions don't you? No way will she give you an easy route back to her heart. Who in their right mind would?

Had she asked my advice what to do about YOU, I would tell her to keep a safe emotional distance to protect herself, until you figured yourself out enough to express it.

Then she wouldn't be at the mercy of YOUR very unpredictable, confusing, and impulsive behavior. It's a mess you made, of which you are paying the consequences for, and there are no easy quick fixes.

Back up, and take some time to let YOUR emotional dust settle so you can take a more honest approach to this dilemma you have made for yourself. What she needs is a solid explanation for your stupidity, time to process it, and make a decision for herself, whether you deserve a second chance, and are worth the risk of hurting her again.

greatstudent · Jun 21, 2011, 03:13 PM

Yes, I think that you should keep SMSing her. I think that you should just call her when she tells you to call her or when you know she isn't that busy. Make sure though that when you do SMS her that you shouldn't get angry or annoyed just because she can't SMS you back right away. Text her more sweet, happy and motivating texts to get her through the day. :) That will really help her get through her busy schedule.