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    navygirl01 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 15, 2011, 06:49 AM
    How to know if I should move on?
    So me and my boyfriend were together for almost two years and everything to my knowledge was going great he enlisted in the marines and I enlisted in the navy we were going to get married after he came back from basic in demember. But two days ago he said that he needed a brake from me but he wanted to stay friends, its so hard to be just friends with him and he won't texxt me or call me. And I am trying to give him space but it is so hard. Does anyone have any advice I really love this boy and I don't want to lose him. Please help me.
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    Jun 15, 2011, 06:55 AM

    What you can do is to remind him how you feel. If he wants you back, he will find you, but if he doesn't, you can't force him back.

    Unfortunately, it doesn't seem good, because it does seem like a sudden break up from your perspective, but that would mean that he's been contemplating this break up for a while, so he's probably fairly sure of his decision.

    It's only been two days, so it give some time. At some point, your heart will naturally stop waiting around for him to come back and that's when you'll know to move on.
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    Jul 6, 2011, 05:56 PM
    Unfortunately, a "break" is a way of saying he wants to break up but does not have the courage enough to tell you that especially if he is not contacting you at all. Whatever you do, do not contact him as you will only chase him further away if this does have a chance. The fact that he is not contacting you at all may very well mean he is not interested and therefore, try to keep busy and as time goes by you will see that there are others that will love you and that you don't have to wait around for. Time is precious so please don't waste it on someone who does not see you as a priority but views you as an option.

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