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    wertzie20 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 10, 2011, 07:47 AM
    Beautiful wife
    Men are constantly hitting on my beautiful wife and she seems to enjoy it What can I do?
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    Jun 10, 2011, 07:49 AM

    You are married to her and you share a bed.

    Talk to her. Ask her if she doesn't know how to respond, if she enjoys (or needs) the extra attention.

    If the attention makes you insecure, tell her that.

    You must be able to talk to her about other issues in your marriage. Talk to her about this one.
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    Jun 11, 2011, 07:26 AM
    There is nothing you can do when other men are hitting on your wife.

    She has probably been attractive to other men, long before she married you. Maybe what she 'seems to enjoy' is friendly people and harmless banter. Some people attract people like flies through no fault of their own, they just have the kind of energy people like being around, and respond positively to. Maybe that was part of what attracted you to her in the first place.

    If she is otherwise not encouraging contact with men, sneaking around, lying about her whereabouts, hiding her cell phone, and shutting off the computer when you walk in the room, I don't think you have anything to worry about.
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    Jun 11, 2011, 08:05 AM

    So men hit on her, guess you should have married a ulgy women

    But so they hit on her. In my younger days women used to flirt with me, I enjoyed it, made me feel good. But that does not mean I would do anything.

    Why should she not enjoy it, is it a matter of trust ?
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