[AMEY56]

I like a girl .but have never expressed to her .I am kind of bad luck king.whenever I like a girl, my closed friend say they like her since I would prefer my friends over girl and move on with life.then my friend would either move to another because for them it was just physical attraction .but I could not go back to the girls

But this time it was different. Again my close friend liked the girl who I liked .he was supported by my class .but I still like her .this friend went on to propose her but she didn't commit her .

During this time I could not take it more but like her even when over common friends were supporting my friend .I just could not do anything .I could not convince myself like I used to do last times due to this I went into depression which affected me and my studies very badly.

Afterward I came to know about my friend proposing her and about her answer to her .but my friend completely changed her mindset about her and stopped talking to her and trying to asking me to forget her buy telling bad things about

I used an still talk to the girl and she's quiet friendly.I know this time I am really in love though she does not repose .I don't know if she knows about it .

I am afraid to propose her because I don't want to lose her .I will be happy even if she justs talks with me .I don't have any qualities for her to say yes to me .I am not rich nor good looking nor good in studies nor famous or one with power .all I want is that I just don't want to lose her
I don't know what to do .have no support as everyone thinks I am just helping my friend
I am 21 and were studying in same class before I failed for a year .she's same age as me and does not have any boyfriend.

[talaniman]

You never know what you can accomplish if you try, and even if you fail, you will learn for the next opportunity.

Good luck with your studies, that's the priority, no matter what she says to you. So stop selling yourself short and put your best foot forward. Never sweat the competition. They can fail too, and usually do.

[NatuaralThinker]

Love is not always about caring. Sometimes you have to make tough choices, your friend or yourself. Go talk to the girl and say something nice to her see how she reacts. Make her yours and stand up. Be a man and take what is yours.

[Shaaaye69]

That is really nice of you to let your friend get the girls first, and to let him go after the ones you like, but you should put your foot down and take a stand, and go after some of these girls, your friend might be mad, but oh well you will know it was a good decsison