[gwendj1975]

I have been in a relationship with a man who has a live-in girlfriend. I broke things off for about 3 months. He refuses to give up. I have been trying to live a normal life without having to be the other woman. Last week, he placed his mother's ring on my finger and told me that he is willing to do whatever it takes to get me back. He plays family when his son comes around but he says that they are not together when his son is not around. What do I do?

[Cat1864]

I hope you immediately took the ring off and told him not to contact you ever again.

He can't cause any confusion in your life that you don't allow. Tell him to leave you alone because you are not playing his game. If he continues to try, block any ways that he could contact you. Don't accept phone calls. Ignore and delete messages, texts, etc.

He needs to take care his own mess and not involve you it. Don't allow his emotional dust storm to cause havoc in your life.

Take some time to heal and let your own emotional dust settle. Do things that you enjoy that help you feel better and stronger as an individual. You will probably find someone much better suited to you who isn't playing games if you give yourself a chance.

Good luck.

[amicon]

Take the ring off,hand it back to him and close the door in his face.

He's a two timing liar-don't fall for his BS!!

[talaniman]

I agree with the other posters 100%. You need to give him his ring back and keep him out of your life forever. If he cannot take NO for and answer, then you tell him you may have to speak to his live in girl, OR the cops!

[tootyfruity88]

I agree with the others 100% hun, unless he moved out and got rid of girlfriend, he really isn't willing to do everything.