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    Jun 6, 2011, 09:22 PM
    My girlfriend and I are on a break
    Should I ask her if it would be okay to call her once in a while not to often though.
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    Jun 6, 2011, 09:38 PM

    Depends on why you are on a break.

    What happened and how long have you been together?

    How old are you?

    When is the break over with?
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    Jun 6, 2011, 09:51 PM
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    We went on a break because she can't handle the stress of the relatioship right now. And were not getting along and fighting for a few days. Been together for 1 year. I'm 27 she is 23. Don't know when the break is over I thought we were still a couple but was just informed were on a break which has been for a month now. She is not to pleased and doesn't know what to say to me and said we should talk to often
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    Jun 6, 2011, 10:26 PM

    I would take this as a break up and leave her alone. Its hard, but you have already gone a month right? You just keep going without her and look for better things.

    You are a young guy, and your options and opportunities are endless at this point, and you don't have to be stuck on someone that isn't stuck on you.
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    Jun 6, 2011, 11:29 PM

    Talaniman is right it's a break up,not a break-have no more
    Contact with her and go live your life.

    In a loving relationship you don't take breaks because someone feels stressed out-you work together to solve whatever problems there are.
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    Jun 7, 2011, 09:57 AM
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    OK I understand. But I still want to call her once in awhile to see how she is doing I care about her and love her. I just don't want to lose complet contact with her and her drift further away. I want things to tourn around in the future if possible not forget her completely. If you understand
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    Jun 7, 2011, 10:46 AM

    I hear you,though you should know that very few breaks work in favour of getting back together.


    Don't put your life on hold for someone who's not communicating with you.
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    Jun 7, 2011, 12:08 PM

    She doesn't feel the same way you do, nor has your concerns. What you want, and what she wants. That's the conflict, and the difference you must adjust to. What you want would be a denial of the facts.

    Yes, I do understand loving someone that doesn't love you back.
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    Jun 7, 2011, 06:00 PM
    So basically I should move on and have no hope of things getting better?
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    Jun 7, 2011, 06:03 PM
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    So your saying just move on and forget about her and have no hope of getting back together or making thngs better that's pretty bleak. We took abreak before 9 months ago and got back together
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    Jun 7, 2011, 06:05 PM
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    So your saying just move on and forget about her and have no hope of getting back together or making things better that's pretty bleak. We took a break before 9 months ago and got back together 2 months later. So I'll have to see what develops. Things are pretty bad right now they could only get better possibly I'm optimistic but not foolish I know the downside too

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