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    Jun 1, 2011, 01:51 AM
    He got bored...
    We are together 6 months and we started staying together from the first week. Recently he told me that he got bored and that he wants some space. He still wants to have a normal relationship with me as boyfriend girlfriend because it was too much for him. He is not sure what is going to happen and if this destroyed what we have. I am really confused,don't know what to do.
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    Jun 1, 2011, 06:33 AM

    Let him go and have his space -forever.

    If by having a normal relationship he means no strings sex-avoid!!

    See this as a breakup and go no contact.
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    Jun 1, 2011, 12:04 PM
    There is this rubber band theory with men. Sometimes, in a relation, we want to get some space all of a sudden. I know it sucks, but, its not abnormal with most men. So, one end of the rubber band is with you. Let the other end stretch, but don't pull it back. Because he will come back to you for sure.
    Things to keep in mind during this period:
    1. Do not nudge him now and then. Show your independent side to him. He will crave back for you, because you are interesting now, in his eyes, like when he met you.
    2. Make sure you keep in touch with him everyday, saying you miss him or you love him or anything, but keep it to minimum. (minimum is not equal to once an hour)
    3. Make sure he knows what you are going to do for the day. A call would suffice.
    4. DO NOT hang out with boys at this time
    He will definitely come back to you in two or three days.
    PS: you can search more about 'nothing box of men's mind'
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    Jun 1, 2011, 08:14 PM

    Too much, too fast, crash and burn. Move out, and no more sex.
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    Jun 2, 2011, 04:17 AM
    Dear Amicon he doesn't mean sth like that but normal relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend and not as husband and wife.Not sex relationship.
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    Jun 2, 2011, 04:56 AM

    But if he's bored and wants space it's not a normal relationship-of any kind-it's him keeping you on a back burner whilst he can both have his cake and eat it.

    That's not a good place to be-so leave him to his space and move on with your life-you deserve much better.
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