[Bertie35]

I had a relationship with someone from work he pursued me for a couple of years we had a relationship in this time and were really close, I realise now I wasn't ready. I have a four year old son from a previous abusive relationship that I realsise now done a lot of damage! I slept with this guy after a really great night the day after I just cut him off and ignored him I let him down badly he kept contact with me after he left and got a new job working away we talked over the phone and he would often call me when he had been out drinking. We stop contacting each other after an exchange of texts and I got a bit cross with him. He moved back a couple of months ago and got back in contact with me. He has called me and text I have ignored his calls and replied to a couple of texts. I now feel great about myself really confident and happy. Since he has been back in contact I have felt really strongly about him, I swallowed my ego and told him I was sorry for what happened before and that I cared a lot for him. He had been calling and texting a lot now nothing! Did he just want to be friends? I don't know!

[mmresd]

Maybe he was just saying hi? You are thinking things are a more than they actually are.

Good Luck,
Javi

[circles102]

Obviously he was really into you, but you led him to believe that you disliked him, wich is what my former friend turned enemy did to me,(not a good feeling) so he gave you what he thought you wanted by keeping away then when you told him you still liked him his emotions got increasingly conflicted to the point where he decided it wasn't worth the stress to keep trying. If you want him back follow him. If not, just forget about him