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Caitlen23 · May 14, 2011, 07:51 AM

So basically I told a boy last year that I had a crush on him but then after when we went to a disco as a skol there was all difererent skol there and I couldn't fnd him but the next day he says he was out with this blnde girl dancing and laughng and that and den my friend says it was a lie because My friend told me that he asked her to tell me that and now it's a year later and he starts calling me and that I tell my friends and they txted him to leave me alone like I wanted but my friend met him on the bus and he told my friend to tell me he likes me and is sorry for lying and on Monday I have to pic up me brother and he's going to be there and my friends tell me to talk to him so what should I do and say and I really want to make him jelouse but how HELP :confused:

Homegirl 50 · May 14, 2011, 08:06 AM

Why do you think making him jealous is going to make a difference in anything? Why do you want to make him jealous?

If you like him and he likes you why don't you just talk to him and leave the game playing to small children.
The thing with the party happened a year ago? Get over it. This is a new year a new day.

Caitlen23 · May 14, 2011, 08:15 AM

Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Why do you think making him jealous is going to make a difference in anything? Why do you want to make him jealous?

If you like him and he likes you why don't you just talk to him and leave the game playing to small children.
The thing with the party happened a year ago? Get over it. This is a new year a new day.

Umm.Z

DoulaLC · May 14, 2011, 11:08 AM

Caitlen... forget the game of trying to make him jealous. Do you like this boy or not? Maybe last year he wasn't interested in you. Maybe he has matured a bit since then and realized he was wrong to make things up.

As Wondergirl said, it was a year ago... best to forget about it. If you like him now, talk to him. Don't play games. Just say Hi, or wait for him to say something to you. If you aren't interested in him anymore, then just ignore him.

Either way, it sounds as though if you let your friends know how you feel, he will hear about it soon enough.

Caitlen23 · May 15, 2011, 10:36 AM

[QUOTE=Caitlen23;2800404]So basically I told a boy last year that I had a crush on him but then after when we went to a disco as a skol there was all difererent skol there and I couldn't fnd him but the next day he says he was out with this blnde girl dancing and laughng and that and den my friend says it was a lie because My friend told me that he asked her to tell me that and now it's a year later and he starts calling me and that I tell my friends and they txted him to leave me alone like I wanted but my friend met him on the bus and he told my friend to tell me he likes me and is sorry for lying and on Monday I have to pic up me brother and he's going to be there and my friends tell me to talk to him so what should I do I don't want to see him but my friends says to stay friends with him but I'd find it akward I don't even want to see him way should I do help:confused:

DoulaLC · May 15, 2011, 10:42 AM

If you don't want to see him, then don't see him. If you are not interested in him, it doesn't matter what your friends say. You don't have to be friends with anyone you don't want to.

If they keep trying to get you to talk to him, simply tell them, "No thanks, I'm not interested".

Homegirl 50 · May 15, 2011, 10:45 AM

If you don't want to see him or talk to him, don't. You don't have to do what your friends tell you to do.

Caitlen23 · May 16, 2011, 12:39 PM

But I pick up my bro from skol and soMetimes he's der he tries to talk to me but I run

adviceishere · May 16, 2011, 12:43 PM

Then keep running! I'm sure he'll get the hint eventually :p or tell him point blank not to talk to you.

DoulaLC · May 16, 2011, 01:17 PM

You can have a regular conversation with him without it being anything more. "How are you doing?" "Well, I've got to go now."

If you say very little in response to his attempts to talk to you, he will figure it out. Or just come out and tell him, as adviceishere said, "You know, you might be a nice guy, but I am really not interested."

Another option, since your friends talk to him, have them tell him that you aren't interested.

Once you let him know, he will likely stop trying to talk to you.