Does he like me?

Jack_Jack 238 · Feb 6, 2007, 03:39 PM

There is this guy that I like. He always looks at me and sometimes watches what I do. I asked him on a date to get to know each other. Well he first said it depends on what his boss says that he is able to go or not. I gave him my number and he said sweet. I was surprised and I also got his. I called him two days later and then I asked him where he wants to go and he said oh I have to go to work from 6:00 in the morning to 12:00 at night. I just kind of giggled and decided to agree even though I do not believe it. Later I just haven't really talked to him. But I really like him and I don't know if he likes me? What should I do and how to find out if he likes me?

RubyPitbull · Feb 7, 2007, 07:07 AM

I have to commend your being the first one to make a move. Not many women have the self-confidence that you appear to have. So, bravo to you my dear! :)

Now, the ball is in his court. You have let him know you are interested in going out. You gave him your phone number. You called him and chatted. Leave it at that. He knows you are interested. Don't keep calling him. When we women push too hard, guys think we are desperate and they get scared. Just play it cool for a few weeks and see what he does.

kristynn · Feb 7, 2007, 08:34 PM

Originally Posted by Jack_Jack 238

There is this guy that I like. He always looks at me and sometimes watches what i do. I asked him on a date to get to know eachother. Well he first said it depends on what his boss says that he is able to go or not. I gave him my number and he said sweet. I was surprised and i also got his. I called him two days later and then I asked him where he wants to go and he said oh i have to go to work from 6:00 in the morning to 12:00 at night. I just kind of giggled and decided to agree even though i do not believe it. Later I just havent really talked to him. But I really like him and I dont know if he likes me?! What should I do and how to find out if he likes me?

It seems to me that probably he doesn't like you that much. If not, he wouldn't avoid you.
Play it cool! If he really likes you, he'll take initiative! Give him the chance to be a man! ;)
Good luck!