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galiria · Apr 30, 2011, 02:27 AM

Hi every one I want help pleas!
Iwas have abest fried we were best friends from 13 yraers but she left me and be afriend with onther girls and after two years I have

Onther best friends I know her from 2 years ago she is amazing but she have onther friend from other place and she hanging out with them and I don't tell her any thing aout them but when igot out with my friend yesterday she got angry I don't know what to do I dpnt want to tell her that I don't like her friend cuse I love her and I don't want to hurt her feeling but she don't do that I don't know what to do help!

adviceishere · Apr 30, 2011, 02:33 AM

As you get older your going to have a wider circle of friends and you must allow your own friends to have their. You personally are probably better suited in small little groups of friends, not everyone is like that.

You can't have her all to yourself or you WILL make her more angry at you and she won't want to be around you any longer. You might not like her friend but she does and you have hurt her feelings by telling her this.

You must apologise to her and if you don't like her friend then don't hang out with her when she's with her other friend. Make time for just the tow of you but she is allowed have her own friends and spend time with them.

mmresd · May 11, 2011, 06:44 PM

You should try to form a circle of friends, instead of basing all of your friendship needs in one single friend.

Good Luck,
Javi

EmbracingPose · May 12, 2011, 06:30 AM

Back in high school I was for the most part a loner, but I always had 2-3 girls I hung out with. My BFF hung out with a group of girls I despised, but she never tried to unite me with them. Believe it or not... that hurt me very deeply because even though I despised those girls, it made me feel as though my best friend despised me to a certain extent. My reason for not liking those girls is they thought they were super cool and laughed at folks whom weren't like them. I thought they were super fake because of it and I didn't want to associate myself with them. Keep in mind, I was well known by many in HS because I did extremely well in sports and the classroom. So my advice to you... enjoy this time. If you don't like them, pretend to like them anyway. You must always keep your enemies closer. Also... join an organization and make your presence known.