[ravaged]

Me and my fiancé have been together for 2 years and she's pregnant now. She says she loves this dude from wayback but she still loves me, I don't know what to do I mean I love her unconditionally and she's my baby mamma but she loves somebody else 2. any advice?

[amicon]

Please come back with some more details.

[Jake2008]

A woman about to be married, who is pregnant and in love with her fiancé, is in no position to love another man at the same time.

She may love him as a friend, she may love the memories of their relationship, she may love the idea of taunting you for some reason, she may be still communicating with him, etc. etc. It is impossible to guess why she would say she loves another man at the same time she loves you.

Whatever her reason, you need to find out what's going on. As her to set some time aside to discuss this issue. Don't argue, guess, or confront- just talk. Allow both talking and listening, and see if you can't get a truthful answer.

One of the most important characteristics of successful marriages is the ability to communicate- over everything and anything.

Guessing will get you nowhere.

[I wish]

It's time to put your foot down and tell her that you don't want to be in a love triangle. She either loves you and wants to be with you or you'll have to work out an arrangement with her so that you can support and see your child.

It's not fair to you to have to live in limbo. Let her know that she needs to figure out what she wants and not lead you on.

[mmresd]

Give her an ultimatum, a kid doesn't need to be in the middle of a love triangle, and she cannot be in love with someone else if she is with you man, have some self respect for yourself and command a decision.

Good luck,
Javi

[talaniman]

Pregnant women say crazy things. Don't make this an issue, and don't take it to heart, and worry over it.

Focus on the needs of your baby mama, and ask her about it much later.