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silkk18776 · May 6, 2011, 01:11 PM

So my girlfriend and I have been together for just over 5 months now. When we first met we hit it off. She was so into me texting me all day calling me any chance she could get and basically flaunting me to her friends. After a month we kind of just had me move in to her place. Now I know its really really soon to do that but it just happened. I have been there for 4 months now. For the last month and a half we have really been bickering and fighting a lot. I even moved out once only to come back because she was so sad that I left. Things have changed a lot. She only texts me a few times here and there, gets annoyed at me for asking her what she's doing on her time off from work, always blows up at me for no good reason. Now recently I went on to her Facebook page and saw that she told one of her friends that she thought I was just an OK boyfriend, and that she still loves her ex and they have talked about getting back together but neither of them know what they want and he needs to get counseling for his anger issues and she still does not know if he cheated on her when they were married. I don't know what to do, do I stay or do I go? We were in a huge fight the day she said that stuff to her friend. Oh and she is just separated and not divorced yet. The funny thing is, she told me 2 days later that she wants nothing to do with him and that she would never be with anyone if she wanted to be back with him. She told me she loves me so much and she does not want to lose me. Now she said all this out of the blue, I never said anything about me going on her Facebook page. What do I do

tickle · May 6, 2011, 01:37 PM

You two jumped the gun on your relationship, like 0 to l40. You two are just so not into each other; obvious from your statements. Maybe both of you have to mature a bit away from each other.

What can I say. You are such a classic case of misdirectoin in a relationship and I don't want to hear about your sex life, I already know.

You two basically absolutely do not belong together so just get out while the getting is good !

Tick

amicon · May 7, 2011, 12:21 AM

She's not over her marriage and shouldn't be in a relationship until she's healed and moved on from that break up.

Step away from the drama and get back to living your own life.

mmresd · May 7, 2011, 12:35 AM

I believe that if you are not happy in a certain place that you should take action to change it. If it feels like she is notnonto the relationship as much as you want her to be, then yeah, break up with her. Why keep with something that is causing so much fighting, drama, and just evading the inevitable for some time? End it noe and save yourself all the negative impacts that you are receiving from this relationship. Also, she is clearly not over the ex husband. For your next relationship, exercise some trust and don't be checking your girlfriend's privacy.

Good luck,
Javi

talaniman · May 7, 2011, 12:24 PM

Did you know you were a rebound? Someone to keep her occupied while she healed so she wouldn't be lonely. A detraction from her misery at a failed marriage, and pending divorce.

You had your fun, wish her well, and disappear, and don't go back, or look back!

Oh, and so you know, you have a fling, which in no way resembles a relationship, and just for future reference, snooping between two girls is a loser move.