[Bizzerker]

So I got dumped about a month ago, after a relationship that was only spanning a few months, and have been pretty good with keeping in tune with the no-contact rule. Neither of us were exactly friends before we dated, just that we were interested in each other only in a relationship capacity. Except recently I deleted all of her contact information and pictures, didn't keep any of it in a box or anything, doing my best to move on.

Not five minutes after I blocked her from Facebook (I also deleted her from Facebook shortly after she dumped me, any status updates would have just hurt me further) I get a brief e-mail with perfect punctuation and spelling at an obscure time reading "I'm glad you've moved on."

Keep in mind that I've kept true to no-contact, save for the day after getting dumped I showed up at her place with flowers in an attempt to win her back one last time, to which she informed me that she was interested in someone else at that point. I'm not sure if this has been asked or not, but I'm really confused and could really use some insight as to what the hell she's thinking?

[Bizzerker]

Hi! I'm a new user, but I've been using this site for the last few weeks to help me get over a breakup. I've followed the no contact rules, outside of when I before read this site. I went to the girl's house and brought flowers. As far as I know, the only issue I've had with the relationship is time. I work full-time and go to school, but I gave her any days I had free. This isn't the issue at hand, however.

I kept to no-contact, and I managed to not talk to her afterwards, save for the occasional Skype conversations that she would initiate, while I kept conversations brief, I admittedly was weak and confessed how I still had feelings for her, and that if push came to shove, I wouldn't mind waiting for her. The week after, I showed up to her place with flowers and told her that I couldn't accept a phone breakup, and if she wanted to be done with me, all she had to do was say so, and I'd disappear. She wouldn't say she was over me, but she wanted me to wait. Later she admitted it was because it was another guy she was seeing and was curious about, putting the final nail in the coffin for me wanting to get back with her. I'm still not over her, and this is part of why I ask this.

Recently, I built up the courage to delete all of her contact information, all of the pictures, and all of the social networking tools without writing anything down, to avoid communication while plastered. I blocked her from Facebook, so it wouldn't keep bothering me to add her as a friend again (my close friends added her on Facebook and haven't removed her) We weren't friends before we started dating, I had met her at a large convention, and we immediately hit it off. I never hit her, I would sometimes fight with her about word choices that hurt me, but I was always willing to talk it out, rather than sulk and be moody about it for days. I think relatively speaking, I wasn't a TERRIBLE boyfriend.

However, not five minutes after I did all of these steps, she wrote a brief e-mail to me saying, "I'm glad you've moved on." Nothing else. I don't know how to react or if she's just poking at me to see if I crumble.

What do I do!

[J_9]

Heck, how are we supposed to know what she is thinking?

She ended it with you and is moving on. You should do the same.

[adviceishere]

Its somewhat easier to be the "dumpee" than get dumped, especially when the one that got dumped seems heartbroken and keen to get back with the person.

She was happy enough with that, but... when she seen that this bloke that she has dumped is no longer heartbroken and dares to move on, it hurt her ego! That's all it was. She obviously noticed you had blocked her from Facebook...

Leave it were it is, your past it!

[amicon]

Don't waste time trying to figure out what she's thinking.

Ignore her forever,stick to NC and keep moving on.

[I wish]

100% no contact. What you did previous is constantly break the no contact rules. Check out this link concerning no contact: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...nc-510419.html

No matter what words she said, her actions show that while she broke up with you initially, she wanted to experiment with the new guy while leaving you as the backup plan. It's time to stop being the back up plan and move on. You're better off finding someone who puts you as her priority and not treat you like a safety net.

[talaniman]

One last dig to get you stuck! It worked! You are confused, and thinking about what's on her mind, instead of out doing your thing and forgetting about her.

People do stupid things when they are confused, and angry. That's why No Contact was made for YOU!!

Bet she still has the flowers!!

[mmresd]

No one but her knows what he might be thinking. But, whatever she might be thinking is not important. Just accept her decision of breaking up and keep up with NC so that you can start healing. Also, move on and start looking for someone who actually wants to be with you.

Good luck,
Javi