[leelee11]

I am in love with my soulmate, but he is in a relationship with a girl, who just had a baby with him. He finally realizes that I am his soulmate. He calls and textes me to tell me how he feels about their relationship. I think he is conflict with himself, cause he should have continue to date me when 2 years ago, when there was no her.

[talaniman]

What broke you soul mates up? Her?

[Fr_Chuck]

Yes, he is everything and swears he will leave her soon as soon as :
1. the baby is older
2. he has to let her down easy
3. the baby starts school
4. baby graduates school
5. he can't now since it will effect his money
6. it will interfere with his retirement money

You are a mistress, not a soul mate, he is leaving her bed to come and be with you at this point and time, and yes, he is happy since he has had you to be "soulful" with while his wife has been having a baby,

So if he and you are soul mates, you will be a year from now

So what is his firm exact date to leave her,

If he really believed you were a soul mate, he would be out of her home today, not tomorrow, not next week.

Make some excuses for him, that is what the other women always does at this point

[amicon]

He's stringing you along.

Don't let him.

[leelee11]

When we had a date, he got scared I guess, and probably started dating her. We always kept in contact, and we attend the same church. I think he started noticing the vibes and all the other stuff that comes along with the soulmate feelings. Now he is stuck in a rock between a hard place. Because he has made comments on the way I make him feel. We have never had sex either.

[leelee11]

I do not sleep with him. We are not lovers just friends

[J_9]

If you are just friends you will respect him, his woman, and his baby by leaving them all alone. Don't be a homewrecker.

[talaniman]

Feelings of attraction are normal among us humans and some are stronger than others, and you can have those soul mate feelings for many in your life, now, and as you get older.

As far as this guy goes, crossing the boundaries of good behavior will only distract him from handling his business with his child, and baby mama, so friends maybe, but soul mates??

How old are you both, and does he still see his baby mama? One thing for sure, whether he was scared or not, he chose another, and that's a fact you better pay attention to because they are bonded by child and will always be in each others lives.

[mmresd]

If he is a relationship, then he is automatically off limits to you, so you are going to have to respect that and back off. Even if he does the decide to be with you, behind his baby mama, you will be te back up. That is not a place where I would like to be. Either find someone else, or wait for his relationship to end without you interfering with it. You are still young, and you like this guy a lot, but you might like someone else even more later on.

Good luck,
Javi