[toddy00]

I'm a 18 year old male and I had sex with my girl frirnd.I didn't pressure her I could have waited but she said she was ready to have sex.Now she won't speak to me I don't know what to do, did I do something wrong confused.

[redhed35]

Was she a virgin? Was it your first time together?

Sex changes a relationship, males and females go through a torrent of emotions for some it moves the relationship onto the next level for others the relationship falls apart.

The only way to find out what's going on is to talk to her, but she may not be ready yet, give her some space to process, fear of pregnancy, or the relationship moving to fast may be the cause, however they are only guesses, only she can tell you why.

[toddy00]

I don't know if she was a virgin.I didn't ask I didn't want to know to be honest.I just feel bad maybe she wasn't ready but felt pressured to say she was ready I so love her and would totally understand if she didn't want to do it again but I am just confused she won't speak to me .

[amicon]

Like redhed said,only she has the answers.

I can only suggest you wait a couple of days and try talking to her again.

[Cat1864]

Toddy, how old is your girlfriend?

[talaniman]

There could be many things working on her mind, fear, regret, shame, maybe she thinks she is pregnant.

I think it best to wait a day or two and talk to her in person. How old is she?

Some think they are ready when they may not be as ready as they thought.

[toddy00]

My girlfriend is 19.I'll just give her some space then talk to her.Hopefully this dosen't change things between us.

[southamerica]

How long have you been with your girlfriend?

How long since she's spoken to you?

Was the sex the last contact you've had with her?

[ScottGem]

Also some of these things are dependent on culture. So where, approximately do your live? Are you both in school?

[toddy00]

I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years.She hasn't spoken to me in 2 days.The last time I seen her was the night she stayed at my place.I live in australia, we are both studying at the moment.

[joe816x]

Well toddy hope things between you and your girlfriend get better, like redhed said she's prob juss worried at the moment, (mainly pregnancy more than likely if anything) but don't let it get to you too bad man.
But did you use protection? Or juss go normal style? And what was her reaction to you after her orgasm? Bc sex can change people tremendously.

[ScottGem]

Joe raises a very good question. Did you use protection. She may have been ready but assumed you would have protection. If you didn't, she may have realized it too late and that may be what is bothering her.