[Emilion012911]

He is not wanting me to prove it to him I just want to so he truly knows how serious I am do you have and suggestions? Ive had a lot of boyfriends before but never the feelings I have with him and I want him to know that we are 15 and its been 4months thanks(:

[Wondergirl]

Bake him a batch of chewy, fudgy brownies or a batch of his favorite cookies. (I bet you don't even know what his favorite kind is, do you.)

[Fr_Chuck]

You don't, first you don't have to and should not be PROVING anything, You merely gain it over time and lots of communication

[Wondergirl]

Emilion012911 does not find this helpful : because that's weird. i want something i can do physically in public

I have had many, many boyfriends throughout my life -- and every single one of them loved me more when I baked for them.

They've forgotten what else I said or did, but those brownies and cookies will live in their memories forever!

There is NOTHING you can do physically in public. Hopefully, he'll share his treasure trove of brownies or cookies with others (and not eat them in the privacy of his bedroom), and word will get around how cool you are and how blessed he is to have you as his girlfriend. Other girls will copy you and make treats for their boyfriends. (Or their boyfriends will beg them to.)

Trust me on this.

[ScottGem]

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Emilion012911 does not find this helpful : because that's weird. I want something I can do physically in public

First, may I call your attention to the guidelines for using the comments feature found here:

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Please learn the rules of this site. WG tried to help you and you slap her in the face. You may not like the advice she gave, but it was certainly valid advice based on the question you asked. You owe WG an apology. And we will have the rating removed.

[Cat1864]

It is easy to think that love needs grand gestures and big displays, but it doesn't. Little things add up.

You show that you love him by listening to him. Pay attention when he talks about things he likes. Fishing or baseball may not be what interests you, but trying to learn about them can show him how much you care.

Not over reacting when he does something immature. Standing by with a first aid kit when he tries doing something that you know is going to end up in scrapes and bruises. Not saying 'I told you so' can go a long way.

As Wondergirl said, surprising him with something that you fixed yourself. It means you are thinking about what he likes and putting time and energy into doing something that will make him happy.

Try not to let jealousy or insecurity cause you to do or say things that you will regret.

Don't allow him to talk you into doing things you know you shouldn't just because you love him. Sometimes saying 'no' is the best way to show someone you love him.

Communicate with him.