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    Apr 23, 2011, 10:44 AM
    Is this love?
    I think Im in love with my best friend, what should I do?
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    Apr 23, 2011, 10:47 AM

    You will have to give us more information than that... is your best friend boy or girl? Are you boy or girl? How old are you? Are either of you in relationships?
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    Apr 23, 2011, 10:49 AM
    Ok so I am a 19 year old Sophomore girl in college and I have a best friend he is a Junior. We have been close for a year now. Around October we hung out constantly some friends told us that we would make a nice couple. SO we began to talk. Our chemistry is AMAZING. We hang out but we still allow each other to be with our other friends. When we having issues we are able to work it out. We both have decided to take a pause on dating so we can make sure this is were God wants us to go. But Im always thinking about him. Is that wrong for us to wait. Could I end of losing what we have? Could this be love?
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    Apr 23, 2011, 11:45 AM

    It sure could be, if it stands the test of time and reality. Touching story, and I think at least for now, its very special to you both, and dating or not, you will see if it lasts or not. Just enjoy the experience and share the happiness.
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    May 1, 2011, 01:13 PM
    I had the same thing 2 times,the relationship you two might have will be wonderful, as soon as you are best-friends and understand each other so much. But just think, if you break up with him, you will no longer have his friendship ( it doesn't matter what you both promise to each other,it will happen),and it will be very hard,very,very hard. Try to find someone else to love,and you will protect your friendship (I'm telling you that from my experience). Good luck!

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