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loveneedsfaith · Apr 22, 2011, 01:28 PM

My boyfriend and I were so in love. He was my first love, and I was his. We were going to different schools so I thought it was best to break up. But we didn't actually break up. I guess we were friends with benefits. A few weeks after our break up, I went on vacation with my family. When I checked my e-mails, there was one for everyday I was gone. For two weeks, he sent me a message everyday. They simply said "I love you. I miss you. I can't wait for you to come back. Love you baby." These emails made my day! But when we were starting our new school year, he got a girlfriend. He told me he still loved me and he always will. He didn't love her, or have strong emotions for her. She was just a way for him to move on. They broke up. A few months later, he got a new girlfriend. He claims to like her a lot. But I don't want to believe that. I LOVE HIM. I want him to know, but I don't want to sound stupid. We still talk a lot. But I can't handle not having him. He means everything to me.
WHAT DO I DO? PLEASE HELP.

talaniman · Apr 22, 2011, 02:37 PM

You stop all contact with him, so you can move on as he has.

It's that contact that keeps hope alive, and its false hope. Its clouding your whole perspective of things.

Homegirl 50 · Apr 22, 2011, 03:37 PM

I agree with talaniman. Cut contact with him so you can move on.

mmresd · Apr 22, 2011, 07:47 PM

You have kind of pulled the trigger on yourself on this one. I don't understand the need to break up just because you go to different schools? The possibility of a LDR (Long Distance Relationship) never popped in your mind??

All you can really do now is tell him how you feel and hope he makes the right choice, remember that he is actually playing this one by the book. You broke up with him, and he found a way to move on, you may have pushed him too far already but there is only one way to find out. But if he is completely done with you, you made your own bed on this one.

Good Luck,
Javi