[nattieep]

Oh my god! Please help! We have split up for about 2 months now and I was so upset when I heard he dumped me, my heart literally broke into a million pieces, we are still good mates, in fact, we are so close right now, but I have this feeling that he's leading me on and its hurting me for example he still flirts with me and tickles me and pulls my bra strap but then, I give my hopes up to him, and he never does go out with me, I need him back! He's such a stunner, I want to forget about him cause he is such a prick to me, but how, someone help me please?! Xox

[DoulaLC]

You are going to have to cut him off completely... at least for now. Having him close is not going to allow you to heal and move on. It will only continue to cause you to have false hope.

If he was the one, he would be with you still. He has obviously moved on and doesn't realize, or care, the struggle you still have with the break up.

It won't be easy at first, but it will get better as time goes on. If you have to, tell him the reason. If he cares about you as a friend, he will respect your wishes. You don't have to be mean about it, just tell him how you feel.

Then focus on spending time with other friends, getting involved in school or work, spending time with your family, trying something new you have never done before, setting goals for your future, whatever you can do to keep yourself occupied.

[monsterniki]

You contradicted yourself. He is a stunner but he is a prick. He is someone who is just keeping you at arms reach. Best advice is move on you do not need anyone.

[Unrequitedlove]

Ok I know breakups always suck but you will get over it if you space yourselves. You can almost never be friends with your ex unless the breakup was mutual. Distance yourself from him and don't take him back because he obviously is just messing with you. Move on and you will hardly ever think about him. You are only going to hurt yourself by staying friends with him.