[brodie83]

I'm 27 and met a 25 year old girl while I was drunk. She gave me her number and we texted back and forth for a week. The problem was that I couldn't remember what she looked like or what we even talked about because I was drunk so I lost interest and backed out of our first date. She told me she was busy and didn't take meeting me seriously anyway.

A week has passed and I found her profile on Facebook. Not only is she beautiful but all our interests are the same. Is it too late to try again now that I know more about who I was texting or do I let that ship sale? She is relationship material. Do I contact her through Facebook or just call her? I mistook her for a typical girl you meet while drunk.

[talaniman]

Part of me says you don't deserve another chance, but if you have learned that being drunk will make you miss options, and opportunities, then call her and see if its to late or not. She may not be that open to hooking up with a guy who get drunk, and can't remember who he is talking to.

[brodie83]

Do I call her and tell her I saw her Facebook profile? How do I explain the change of heart? I used the excuse "that I was really busy" when I backed out of our date. Do I tell call her now, acting like I'm not busy, or do I wait a few weeks and call her.

[Fr_Chuck]

So you would dump her if she was average, and not go on a first date, since you did not remember her.

I would say, she deserves better and not to waste your time.

But unless this is Jr High, how about calling and being at least 1/2 honest and just asking her out again.

[brodie83]

I think you are making this into a bigger issue. I was drunk. She knew I was drunk and that I probably didn't remember most of what I said that night. I remember that I enjoyed meeting her but honestly my interest was very limited because I hardly remembered her or anything we talked about. Our phone conversations were great, but I felt bad because she seemed more interested in me than I was in her since I couldn't remember much of our conversation. I found out we have a lot in common so it would be worth pursuing her. I have no problem calling her. I just don't know how to explain the change of heart? I stalked you on Facebook and now I want to ask you out! Isn't there a more subtle approach?

[brodie83]

I completely agree that I don't deserve another chance. Do I talk to her like nothing happened or do I apologize?

[LisaB4657]

Call her, tell her that you acted like a fool, that you're very sorry and ask her if she'll give you a second chance.

[Homegirl 50]

Didn't she say she did not take meeting you serious anyway? She may not want to hear from you.

Call her and tell her what a jerk you were but would like a second chance at talking to her.
You might want to stop meeting girls when you're drunk now that you know how foolish it makes you look.

[brodie83]

I appreciate the responses! I will give her a call.