[JCharlie]

There's this girl who I met through Facebook, we happen to have aquaintances but never met each other, she said she would like to meet me so I took her out on a date, we went to the stores, talked (mostly her wich I didn't mind), took her to a restaurant then movies afterwards. When I went to drop her off at her house she said she had a great time, and that she would like to do it again, but instead of going out we could just hang out at her place and watch movies or whatever, I was happy. We made plans to go out again this week on Thursday but she cancelled because she got sick and was heading out of state for a whole week. She said she feels bad about it but that shell let me know when we will be able to hang out again. I said it was cool. She's preety, smart, funny, and has many interestes that we share, all in all she's the kind of girl I've been looking for. Here's the bad part though, about 2 months ago she was dumped by her boyfriend who she had been with for 4 years, she was devastated at firs but she says she's over him now since she found why he dumped her (for another girl, wich in turn dumped him). I like her as a friend right now but I would like it if in the future we could beocme more. For right now I just want to get to know her better and vise versa, because who know we might end up just being friends right? So my question is how do I approach this without hurting her or making her feel umcomfortable, because to be honest she was my very first date and I was really nervous, thank you for taking the time to read this any advice is appreciated

[aliseaodo]

Not quite sure what the problem is.. there doesn't seem to be anything to 'approach' on a second date. It sounds like you had a good first date, and are happy to have another one. I wouldn't worry about what is going to happen in the future with this person until you get to that point. Enjoy the initial dating, and learn more about her - and let her learn more about you. Talking about what you want for the future with her this early might be a bit much. Good luck with your second date!

[adviceishere]

This might sound really boring and corny but just be honest with her.. tell her exactly what you told us in your post, she will love your honesty and your sensitivity.

[monsterniki]

Well don't wait for her to maje the plans. If you really want her go after her