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lewisfoskett · Apr 7, 2011, 01:07 PM

I know the implications about this, I know sex would be
Out the picture, and honestly I am fine with this, I just
Want to be with her! She's the love of my life... but I haven't told
Her, should I tell her and possibly be put into
Depressin if she says no, or tell her and be happy, but
For it to be difficult every time were alone xx

Thank youy

Eileen G · Apr 7, 2011, 03:40 PM

Er no, And not because she's 14 either. You don't know her nearly well enough to know if she's the love of your life, and you telling her that will just freak her out.

As long as you are prepared to accept that she is 14, and a sexual relationship is out of the question, I don't see a problem about going out with her in group situations, as long as her family is also okay with this.

Get to know her before you declare your undying passion. You might find that her habit of texting everything you say or constantly checking out her lipgloss gets annoying.

Fr_Chuck · Apr 7, 2011, 07:16 PM

She can not be "the love of your life" if you don't know her very well, she may be HOT and you may have the "HOTS" for her, but don't confuse emotions for lust ( normal at your age)

If you want to hang out and your parents and her parents don't care, that is one thing.

talaniman · Apr 7, 2011, 09:35 PM

Don't get all sloppy, and carried away so soon, wait a while, and just have fun.

Alty · Apr 7, 2011, 11:20 PM

Trust me, you'll have many loves of your life before you find your true love. You're only 16, and she's only 14.

Why not just hang out with her, be friends with her, go out in groups, get to know each other. I have a feeling that this undying love will fade sooner then you think.

lewisfoskett · Apr 8, 2011, 05:28 AM

Trust me she's the one. I think about her 24/7, I told her that I really like her yesterday evening. And
She said she really likes me too... I have known her for 8 years so I know her well enough! We are together now so thanks for the adviuce, ill update this if I turn out to be wrong and you lot
Are right! Cheers

talaniman · Apr 8, 2011, 05:43 AM

Lol, have fun, and be careful, because nobody trust a 16 year old with raging hormones, or a young 14 year old. Who would, you both are subject to many changes in the next few years, and you will make many decisions, and draw a lot of conclusions that are based on how the intense feelings make you act.

Many of those ideas you have now will change as you both mature. Maybe not at the same time, but they will change. Trust me. So just enjoy it, while it lasts.

NukeNC · Apr 8, 2011, 10:26 AM

Originally Posted by lewisfoskett

trust me she's the one.

This made me chuckle a bit. You can't really know somebody is "the one" when your 16, or really ever for that matter. My previous relationship we were together for four years, we talked about marriage and such but never once did I say that she was "The one" because, **** happens and things change and you need to accept that a relationship like that is probably not going to end in a marriage. I just don't want you to be too invested when your 16 years old, it was a mistake I made and I'm still paying for it. Your young. Enjoy life. You've only got 2 years till college, make them count!