[rtorres81]

My husband has this thing about me talking about my past sexual experiences while we are having sex. Now when we have sex, I don't think of him at all. I think about everybody else but him. It's hard for me to even start and I feel disgusted because he does nothing for me, I have to ask him to blind fold me or turn me so I don't see his face. I've explained and he doesn't care how I feel as long as he gets off to my old stories. What do I do?

[Fr_Chuck]

I don't think about your husband when I have sex either.

You and he have your own "limits" and ways to enjoy each other. As for as how you feel, just say no and don't have sex at all , till he starts sharing and to help him understand it is a matter of give and take,

[martinizing2]

I don't think about anybody s husband during sex.



It all sounds rather mechanical , devoid of feeling.

How long have you been together and has sex always been like this for you two?

You are asking what to do ,
But the real question is...
What do you want to do?

If you are otherwise happy and getting along (which I find unlikely) then staying in the relationship may work out OK.

If you are unhappy otherwise , getting out of a miserable relationship only makes sense.

If you gave more details about the other aspects of your life together it would help, and allow us to give you more accurate advice .
The more you can tell us about your relationship the better.





















9, which I doubt,
And you can be content with the sex