[shawnsonic]

I knew this girl for 2 years and like her a lot but on Facebook I asked her if she liked me she said, I think so and said yea but I don't want to be in relationship right now she told me this like 1 month ago but I don't know she is confusing me and I asked her to movies this weekend she said she had to do something all day for family. I said OK but I look at her Facebook wall it says the event is over and she is going to the mall.I felt like I got played and like a dumbass I don't know if I should tell her but it made me angry that someone would do that, even when I ask them to tell me "no" if they diden't want to.when she said she did like me I felt like she said it to be nice because I don't need that **** if you don't I can move on.which I am thinking of doing since we barely will see each other next year this is stressing me out and messing with my sleep *** give me your opinions.

[ironhide262]

I think moving on is a good idea. She did say that she doesn't want a relationship and she was most likely trying to let you down easy by giving you the excuse of being busy. Many people do this out of fear of hurting or offending someone... so, just as good as the answer "No". Don't stress out... there's a world full of new people to meet!

[gazal12]

If she is hanging you lyk this then I think you should move on buddyyyy..! You deserve someone better than her... Move on... and enjoy if she don't know your importance you shouldn't give her that much importance as well I think... rest upon you but best of luck from my side buddyyyyy...

[talaniman]

When a female doesn't give you the answer you want, you simply don't keep trying to get with her. I thought she was rather clear when she said she likes you but doesn't want a relationship with you.

Sometimes you have to make your own decisions and not wait for a yes, no, maybe so!!

[shawnsonic]

She told me she likes me she can feel comfortable and ima great guy around her and make her act herself. Which I thought was a key to a relationship right there but I was going to give it 1 month or 2 before I quit or just talk to other girls and make her jealous or reduce talking to her because she told me she loves talking to e and I really want her.

[talaniman]

QUOTE by shawnsonic;
She told me she likes me she can feel comfortable and ima great guy around her and make her act herself. Which I thought was a key to a relationship right there

She also said she didn't want a relationship with you. That makes your key a friendship, not a relationship.

but I was going to give it 1 month or 2 before I quit or just talk to other girls and make her jealous or reduce talking to her because she told me she loves talking to me

That's not being fair to the ones you are talking to because it's a desperate game to get what you want, and you will feel bad when your desperate game back fires in your face. Accept she just doesn't want the romance for you and drop the games and in a month or two, your feelings will have changed and you will have your attentions focused elsewhere, in a better direction.

I really want her

And that upsets you and has you thinking of playing games to change her mind. It also keeps you hanging on to false hope she will change her feelings.

Its quite simple, she wants a friend, and your attention, you want her attention, and a girl friend. Which one do you think wins? Let it go and do your thing, and stop being frustrated with yourself. You are just asking for trouble. She won't commit to just being your girl.

You don't chase someone who doesn't want you, and get upset, and desperate about it. That's called being stuck, and being stuck is a bad place to be. Remember your own words?

I felt like I got played and like a dumbass I don't know if I should tell her but it made me angry that someone would do that, even when I ask them to tell me "no" if they diden't want to

Which should you believe? Her WORDS... or her ACTIONS??

but I don't know she is confusing me and I asked her to movies this weekend she said she had to do something all day for family. I said OK but I look at her Facebook wall it says the event is over and she is going to the mall

That makes you an option, while you are making her a priority! That's crazy!!