QUOTE by shawnsonic;
She told me she likes me she can feel comfortable and ima great guy around her and make her act herself. Which I thought was a key to a relationship right there
She also said she didn't want a relationship with you. That makes your key a friendship, not a relationship.
but I was going to give it 1 month or 2 before I quit or just talk to other girls and make her jealous or reduce talking to her because she told me she loves talking to me
That's not being fair to the ones you are talking to because it's a desperate game to get what you want, and you will feel bad when your desperate game back fires in your face. Accept she just doesn't want the romance for you and drop the games and in a month or two, your feelings will have changed and you will have your attentions focused elsewhere, in a better direction.
And that upsets you and has you thinking of playing games to change her mind. It also keeps you hanging on to false hope she will change her feelings.
Its quite simple, she wants a friend, and your attention, you want her attention, and a girl friend. Which one do you think wins? Let it go and do your thing, and stop being frustrated with yourself. You are just asking for trouble. She won't commit to just being your girl.
You don't chase someone who doesn't want you, and get upset, and desperate about it. That's called being stuck, and being stuck is a bad place to be. Remember your own words?
I felt like I got played and like a dumbass I don't know if I should tell her but it made me angry that someone would do that, even when I ask them to tell me "no" if they diden't want to
Which should you believe? Her WORDS... or her ACTIONS??
but I don't know she is confusing me and I asked her to movies this weekend she said she had to do something all day for family. I said OK but I look at her Facebook wall it says the event is over and she is going to the mall
That makes you an option, while you are making her a priority! That's crazy!!