[dude_love]

Fellas I need advice from you guyz after long time... and yes I need some suggestions

I will give you a brief history...

Me and this girl got close... used to hangout as friends.. In a way I used think that I am going to ask her out or just ask her to be GF.. u know.. we hanged out for lets say 2-3 months.. caz I wanted to take my time to know her.. she was little snooty or snobbish but other than she was the kind the girl I ever wanted... but one day we had a argument... and I just walked out.. leaving her behind.. next day I could see in her eyes.. she was pissed... I took two or three days.. and I apologized her with all good intentions.. and seeing her smiling for my apologies.. I asked her out.. right away... she said "We will see"... and in a way I felt she was not sure... Just for the she was the girl I ever wanted I asked her again and said was just bad day.. and she said... "I was not her type and she did not like me'... and after few days... she just left the place (It was a work place)... and to make things more sorted out.. I sent her a email.. saying sorry I shouldn't have push for a relationship (if it felt like that to her) and that was it.. end of story...

2 years.. later I got hired at a different place... and to my surprise I found this girl working there as well... and there was some awkwardness between us.. I never spoke a word more than... Hi or how are you? Every-time if we would bump into.. and some somehow I could feel she intended the same... well recently she got promoted and she moved to a different floor... it is big corporation I work for... anyways... I week after she left one fine morning I found her small smiling picture on my desk... I didn't think a-lot of people know that we used to hangout (not even date).. and would put that as a prank... and as far as I know she is dating some guy...


I don't know should approach her? Or how should I approach her... was she was to stick her picture... I don't know... but in a way I still have a soft corner for her... any suggestions?. I don't know it feels like it is like second chance? Or I don't know what it means... why would anybody put picture on someone else's desk

[amicon]

I've no idea how that picture ended up on your desk,but since there has been barely any conversation between you for years and she's dating someone else,I'd say leave it.

It didn't happen more then two years ago,it isn't going to happen now.

[talaniman]

Take the picture to her, and ask her directly if she was the one that left it. This is not an opening for a future connection though, just a fact finding mission.