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bethanyjaynee · Mar 24, 2011, 04:09 PM

I don't no where too start I'm 14 years of age and have just fell pregnant with a 16 year old I am NOT in a relationship with this boy and don't want too tell him about the baby in fact I don't know whether too even keep the baby I've got my GCSE's next year and I'm not sure what too do I've rang an abortion clinic but I'm still not sure,I need someone else's opinion on this. What would you do if you was in my situation?&by the way I'm 12 weeks pregnant and fount out 3 days ago.

Wondergirl · Mar 24, 2011, 04:11 PM

Please tell your parents about this.

bethanyjaynee · Mar 24, 2011, 04:14 PM

I would tell my parents but I just can't not yet anyway I want too be for sure on what I'm doing so someone please give me there opinion on what they would do?

Wondergirl · Mar 24, 2011, 04:15 PM

Originally Posted by bethanyjaynee

i would tell my parents but i just can't not yet anyway i want too be for sure on what im doing so someone please give me there opinion on what they would do?

This is NOT something you can decide about on your own. You need adult help. Please tell your parents today.

bethanyjaynee · Mar 24, 2011, 04:19 PM

It's something I'm going too have too decide my mum is having a baby herself so it just feels wrong too tell her that her 14 year old daughters having a baby as well plus she's away for 2 weeks and there's noway I'm reuining her holiday.
PLEASE just try and help me make decisions in some kind of way?

bethanyjaynee · Mar 24, 2011, 04:22 PM

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bethanyjaynee · Mar 24, 2011, 04:34 PM

I don't know what too do I'm so upset.
I've got really bad cramps and a discharge that's yellowish with red.
I'm alone in my house trying too decide what I've got to do and I can't think staright does anyone have any suggestions on what they would do if they were '14 and pregnant?'PLEASE any help will do.

bethanyjaynee · Mar 24, 2011, 04:41 PM

I don't know what too do I'm so upset.
I've got really bad cramps and a discharge that's yellowish with red.
I'm alone in my house trying too decide what I've got to do and I can't think staright does anyone have any suggestions on what they would do if they were '14 and pregnant?'PLEASE' any help.advice will do.

cdad · Mar 24, 2011, 04:45 PM

Call your doctor and explain your situation. Don't wait call now.

southamerica · Mar 24, 2011, 04:48 PM

Yes, go to your doctor, or a planned parenthood, and some places even have health departments that provide health care for pregnant women. Just see someone now so they can explain to you what your options are and what's next. You need to act NOW. Good luck.

Wondergirl · Mar 24, 2011, 04:53 PM

Do you have a father?

Your mother left you alone at home for two weeks?

bethanyjaynee · Mar 24, 2011, 04:59 PM

You guys on here make everything sound SO easy I guess adults know what too do though especially in situations like this.
I'm too scared too do anything I have rang a few abortion clinics up but I'm not sure whether its what I want I'm 12 weeks pregnant and I'm feeling very ill and sore.
I got pregnant with a 16 year old at a party-SLAGISH I know.
And I've had unprotected sex whilst being pregnant also with a different person-I didn't know I was pregnant at this point.
I really want too tell someone but I can't my options are really narrowed down too be alone or abortion because my mums away abroad-shes pregnant herself
&the 'babys' dad won't want anything too do with it if I tell him he's a teenage boy he wants a life with his friend getting high and having sex whenever he wants.

I'm not sure what I'm going too do now I would go too my GP but the GPS my step-cousin!&im seriously not going there because she will go staright too my mum and then I will get battered.
You see I've disappointed my mum so much I think this would push her too the limit I think she would actually dis-own me.
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Im not sure what too do now whatever discisson I makes going too be so hard,I feel like crying I've got so much pressure on me and I'm not sure what too think basically my lifes over.:L

cdad · Mar 24, 2011, 05:07 PM

Call your local hospital and talk to a Nurse or Doctor there. See what they have to say and how to go about your situation. Who is caring for you since your mom is gone ?

bethanyjaynee · Mar 24, 2011, 05:07 PM

Yes I have a father I see him every two weeks-the weekends only.
There's noway I can tell him he's my dad that's just not right he won't understand and he will just take it into a massive drama and then probably not come and see me for months.
&not on my 'own' my 20 year old brother lives at mine but he's out most of the time anyway only in the day though he normally sleeps at mine every night but not that last three nights-this is why I thought I'd take a test because no one was around too annoy me or hassle me or ask what I was getting up to.
Of course I found out I was pregnant&now I'm stressing out completeley I just decided that I'm going too have too tell the baby's dad even if I do have an abortion because it might be easier with him there & him helping me decide things.
I'm not sure what too do now whether too have this baby and reuine my life and be called a slag or too just go too an abortion clinic and get this over and done with,but when I'm older I might not be able too have children which is why I'm thinking about getting 'rid' is a good or bad idea&im not sure whether I'm 100% happy with the abortion idea yet ERGH I just don't know what too do.

southamerica · Mar 24, 2011, 05:13 PM

Originally Posted by bethanyjaynee

You guys on here make everything sound SO easy i guess adults know what too do though especially in situations like this.

Trust me, we don't take any pretense that this is easy for you. The facts are: you made a decision to have unprotected sex, and now you're pregnant. What do you do? You speak to a doctor and discuss your options and what's next. NO-dealing with a pregnancy, especially as a teen, is not easy-but you MUST make some decisions now because you made the decision to sleep with someone.

If you are worried about confidentiality, maybe we could help you better if you told us where you're located-then we can look into doctor's clinics in the area that will keep your information private. OR you can go to another doctor who your cousin doesn't work for.

bethanyjaynee · Mar 24, 2011, 05:21 PM

I do understand what you are saying but I've been on the pill for 2 year and I'm sure I didn't miss taking any!-plus I've been having 'sex' since my 13th birthday normally when I've had sex the boys have there own potection(bring condoms)or I made sure I take my pill and he didn't use a condom this time and I know that but I'm 100% sure I didn't miss my pill.
I even took the morning after pill but ovbiously my body doesn't work with them kind of tablets seen as I fell pregnant to be honest I can't believe myself that I'm 12 weeks pregnant & iknow I have too make a decision quick because time soon flys by but the options that I do have don't seem right for me
The obortion side I'm still not sure on.
I've decided too tell the boy I slept with and see what he has too say and see if he wants this baby or if he'd rather me get rid.
I live in Nottingham if that helps.
I'm just not sure what I want.

Wondergirl · Mar 24, 2011, 05:26 PM

You've mentioned you've been having unprotected sex. Now, suddenly you're on the pill and the guys are using condoms?

The pill doesn't work if you take one if you decide to have sex. You have to take them regularly and faithfully every day.

Wondergirl · Mar 24, 2011, 05:29 PM

Originally Posted by bethanyjaynee

ive decided too tell the boy i slept with and see what he has too say and see if he wants this baby or if he'd rather me get rid.

You told me you've slept with guys after this one, and with unprotected sex. How do you know which guy is the father?

Fr_Chuck · Mar 24, 2011, 05:31 PM

And even if taken every day, the pill is not 100 percent effective, and even the morning after is not 100 percent, that is for anyone , not just you. It is a matter of odds.
And how and when you take them,

Some hot lines with people that will talk to you over the phone about options you have
Option Line

Hotlines for Teens

bethanyjaynee · Mar 24, 2011, 05:32 PM

I had unprotected sex the one time the time I got pregnant?
&im sure I took my pill that day.
I've been on the pill for a couple of years at first just because I had a heavy period but then I went onto stronger pills for the whole pregnancy side of things.
Ovbiously I need too go threw all my packets of pills and sort out when I was taking them and when I missed them.
Iknow I missed a few in the week that I got pregnant.
And a couple the week before.
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Right now I'm not too bothered about my 'pills' I'm more bothered on the fact that I'm 14 pregnant with a 16 year old and I'm not sure what I'm doing with my life.