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    alanad123 Posts: 102, Reputation: 5
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    Mar 20, 2011, 03:46 PM
    Prom love... is it real
    My senior prom is coming up soon and I'm really lloking forward to it, this thing my boyfriend is a year below me and my best boy buddy I think likes me a bit and I'm a bit weary of him being around me without my boyfriend being there, but there will be drink and I may get a bit drunk and when I get drunk I do weird things, and the we are staying in a hotel, I might kiss my best boy buddy and I don't know how my boyfriend would take it, how could I tell him
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    Mar 24, 2011, 10:06 AM
    To answer your question: Tell your BF, I can not control myself and kissed another boy, you do not want to be with me, I am only trouble.

    To SOLVE your problem, this hasn't happened yet, and you're assuming you're going to do it. What I get from this post is that you can NOT make up your mind on which boy you like. If you LOVED either one of these guys, you would be true to ONE of them.

    Your boyfriend in this case, has ZERO chance with you, because you already KNOW you are going to get drunk and cheat on him. (kissing is cheating). You should let him know that he can do better.

    Regarding Love: It's a deep feeling, that typically keeps you TRUE to your partner. It can be expressed in many ways. None that are expressed in your current situation. You do not have LOVE, but LUST.

    ----I know I am being very blunt, but your post shows your true colors.
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    Mar 24, 2011, 10:10 AM

    Yes, just break up with your boyfriend before you become a cheater. If you want to be free to kiss whomever, then be free. Don't drag your boyfriend through the dirt when you already know you're going to be unfaithful.

    Have fun at your prom, but make sure it's guilt free. I would also advise you not to drink at all, but it's your choice in the end.
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    Mar 24, 2011, 12:45 PM

    This is going to sound harsh but what your doing is playing a blame game. You need to stop that. Since your in High School its most likely illegal for you to be drinking in the first place. Also unless someone is forcing it down your throat it's a choice YOU are making. So stop making bad choices in your life and start taking responsibility for your actions.
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