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    Mar 23, 2011, 03:56 PM
    Does he care about me?
    My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years now and the first year of our relationship was wonderful. After that, things started to get worse and worse till now where I just can't take it anymore. He only kisses me when we tell each other bye for the day and only loves on me when I initiate it. When we spend time together, he acts like he has more important things to do and doesn't seem to enjoy spending time together. I show him affection a lot. I send him text messages telling him how much I love him and appreciate him and I can't seem to get anything in return. We have talked about it so many times but he just tells me he thinks he's doing it but he will try harder. Things get better for a couple of days but ALWAYS go back to the way they were. Please help me. I love this man so much but I can't take much more of this relationship.
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    Mar 23, 2011, 06:22 PM

    Maybe your relationship since the newness of it has worn off is what it is. Maybe your boy friend is not what you want or need. He can't be something he is not.
    If you are unhappy in the relationship, leave it.
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    Mar 23, 2011, 06:29 PM

    Sounds to me that you have very different personalities, there's an obvious lack of compatibility.

    He expresses affection very differently from you. It's one thing for him to say that he's going to try harder, but it doesn't sound like he knows what to do that would make you happy.

    I think that the next time you speak about this issue, it's better to get down to specifics to figure out what exactly your expectations are of each other. Lay out the ground rules!
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    Mar 23, 2011, 07:35 PM

    Could you be expecting too much from him, or giving too much for what you are getting? Doesn't sound very equal, fun, or fulfilling.
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    Mar 24, 2011, 12:29 AM

    If you have tried to talk about your problem,but nothing changes,I think this relationship has run it's course.
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