[tombrady]

I have been with my girlfriend for about a year now. I love her very much but I keep getting the same annoying little thoughts popping up into my head! I have known her a few years and she used to get off with my best mate. When they kind of stopped and I got to know her I fell madly in love, told her how I felt and turned out she felt the same.(I told my best mate first) Recently my best mate has been seeing a new girl and when I have not been around my girlfriend has been showing signs of jealousy aka hitting him for no reason, jumping in between him and his new girl. Some of my mates like to remind me that she has been with my best mate which doesn't help matters. I find myself trying to win her back?even though I'm not sure if I have lost her or she still likes him. I constantly check my phone to see if she has called or texted and she is all I can think about. I feel like such a paranoid looser! I feel like I should walk away but at the same time I feel I cant! What should I do??

[talaniman]

How old are you both? Do you ever discuss things with her?

[sharper11]

You two need to talk about this and move forward. Ask her straight up if she still has feelings for him and let her know why you are asking.

--this relationship will go downhill fast if you do not communicate about these things.

[angiex]

I can promise you that if you ignore her and act like you don't care anymore she'll start to realise that she's beginning to lose you but she's obviously not going to want what she has she's going to go for what she can't have! It's the way girls work... she knows that your going to run after her anyway so let her know that you willing to walk and not let her walk all over you